OK here it goes...my sister (19yrs) got married last april. since then he has made passes at me and my younger sister (14)...what should i do?
2007-10-16 15:10:04 · 22 answers · asked by kingsholto 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As hard as it may be you need to confront them both and bring it out in the open; it will only get worse and more hurt for your sister.
2007-10-16 15:14:34 · answer #1 · answered by enigmatic1844 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell first your parents and be very specific about what is happening and when this has happened. Second, you need to bring it to your sister (with your parents) and tell her. She will probably be angry with you or defend her husband so be prepared for this, but she will come around. Your parents will help you bring this issue to the authorities if that is warranted. Don't ignore this or try to handle it on your own. If you can't go to your parents, go to a teacher or guidance counselor at school, just be prepared to describe the situations, where, when, how and what. Having those facts will also help your sister to come to terms with what is happening.
2007-10-16 15:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well make sure you sister is safe tell your parents and/or the cops. He sound like a creep, more so if making at both you and your sister. If does anything make sure it get reported no matter how small.
2007-10-16 15:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by cset2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay start with a firm choke hold them move down and apply pressure to the lower rib cage until you feel a snap them pull back and tell him if he ever tries to molest your sister you will finish what you started. then go and tell his wife what you did and why, when you are a man to admit you protected your sis them she should be woman enough to get a divorce and start over, child molesters make me sick.
2007-10-16 15:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you may be scared to ....but you need to tell your sister and your parents...if your a girl u mite not wanna tell ur dad...cuz dads freak out wen sumthin strange happens to here babygirl.....lol...ok well this guy is gross and u need to have a talk with both ur sister and your mom with ur other sister too ...since u said that this guy was doin the same to ur other sister...hope ive helped...bye
2007-10-16 15:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister, your mom, and if they don't believe you, the cops.
There is nothing worse than knowing that you could have done something but hesitated.
2007-10-16 15:18:51 · answer #6 · answered by Alice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you a male or female? i am asking because your avatar is a male i think. im confused now anyway if he is making passes at you and your sister tell your mum!! don't let the b***rd get away with it
2007-10-16 15:13:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about it immediately. I would not go to your married sis right away with this one as she is liable to not believe you. This really needs to be handled by an adult.
2007-10-16 15:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by lilmizmoore 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom first and then the two of you tell your sis, that way she won't get angry with you and think you are lying. If mom is involved she is more likely to pay attention, but whatever you do don't let the sleaze ball get away with it.
2007-10-16 15:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by onyx1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Either your mom, your dad or both might knock the living **** out of him. And he deserves it the freak.
2007-10-16 15:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋