Ok so we have been going out for 3-5 months, and we go to school together. Through out these months I constantly tended to her. Made sure if something was on her mind, I could help her. If her friends didn't eat with her, I would so she wouldn't be alone. I would TRY to hang with her after school, lunch, or whenever, but she would just walk away, and talk to someone else. She gives everyone else attention, but me. If someone is having a bad day she will cheer them up, but when I have a bad day she doesn't give a rat's ***. She gives other people hugs or talks to other people, but I have to ask for attention. I AM FED UP! I don't try to hang with her anymore hoping she will come and hang with me, but she doesn't. I eat alone every day, cuz my friends are out hanging with their girlfriends. She knows I get jealous easy, yet she still flirts with other guys, then when I tell her I'm kinda jealous, she gives me all this "I love you" crap, that doesn't hold any friggin value. WAT DO I DO!
2007-10-16 15:07:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
TALK - TO - HER
The only way you'll ever get any progression in your relationship is through dialogue and communication, key concepts to take note of. Just tell her she makes you feel insignificant. Tell her you want more hugs & support.
If you don't tell her how you really feel, you guys are gonna crash into a brick wall. Once you've told her, & you notice no improvement, end it.
It's really up to you though. Just muster up the courage to be completely honest and you'll be fine :)
2007-10-16 15:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Kendra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agreed....move on. You need someone who appreciates you. Your significant other should always put your feelings first before friends and aquaintances, and you shouldn't have to ask for attention. Also, flirting with other guys is NOT acceptable if she's your girlfriend. Find someone who treats you the way you want to be treated.
2007-10-16 15:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kate K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so young! That's not an insult either! I'm saying, find yourself another, if all she brings is worry, depression and bitterness to you, then its time to find someone else. She's just not that into you, sorry dude! Your young and you should be out enjoying yourself at this time of your life, don't commit to someone who only brings you misery! Go out and have some fun, put out the vibe that your lookin' for love and fun!
2007-10-16 15:15:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. It's an old saying that still holds true. Doesn't matter what she says, she is treating you like she is tired of you, so move on. It's over. Please accept that. Just keep busy & you'll be over her in no time.
2007-10-16 15:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by scaredeycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just from-what your saying, id get rid of the little witch and move on to-better ?she sounds as if, shes trying to look free, in case something better shows up?let her be free and you'll soon see, sorry for your luck man, but girls can be real mean and unfeeling.!!!!!!!!
2007-10-16 15:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by debbie d 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm.
Get a new girlfriend? Because unless you're spending some other time with her somewhere else, you don't have one now.
2007-10-16 15:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by skeptik 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dump her because you are unhappy and you find someone who will truly apperciate you.. if this girl is as bad as you make her sound you really do deserve better.. peace out brother
2007-10-16 15:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohh, she sounds like a mean grilfriend! she isnt worth it and by the sounds of you, your worth a lot more than her! good luck
2007-10-16 15:12:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Dump her.
2007-10-16 15:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-10-16 15:11:14 · answer #10 · answered by fretochose 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋