whats wrong with me?

Question

i am a senior in highschool and i have never been kissed or had a boyfriend

i am not overweight and i dont have acne.
I get along with people so its not my personality
what could be wrong with me.

Answer 1

You are normal. But being overweight, or having acne shouldn't be a deterant to getting a boyfriend. In fact, if either one of these cases did fit you, it may be easier.

You may be very beautiful, therefore guys think that you are unaproachable. They think you may reject them, or more likely, since you are such a hot chick, you already have a boyfriend.

Most guys try to date down. This means they will find a girl who is slightly less attractive than they think they could possibly date. Their self esteem is higher when they think the girl is more easily influenced to agree to a date, due to the fact that she may not be asked on many dates. Also, many guys think that because a girl is unattractive, she may be more willing to "go all the way" as a means to find love.

Try being more aggressive with guys in which you are interested.

Answer 2

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You've probably been going to the same school since preschool... been with the same kids forever. They're boring. You need to go out and find hot COLLEGE guys!

I have a friend like you who's a senior, the love. She's one of my best friends and she is the sweetest, funniest girl. She had neither been kissed nor had a boyfriend. Last weekend was a huge homecoming party. She got s.hit-faced. A guy in her grade led her upstairs and she gave him head (she doesn't remember any of this, but she's devastated. The whole school knows). He did the same to two other girls.

Don't let this happen to you. Wait for someone worthy of you. Don't be so anxious to find a guy. Wait until a guy can't stand not having you.

Answer 3

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. It's your location, your school. Once you graduate, you'll find that people are more open instead of judging you by who you were in high school. I was in the same boat as you and then I met my first boyfriend online. Then I met my next boyfriend online, too. Still with him. Get out more. If there's an 18 and up club, go out and party with your friends. Don't worry about the guys at your school, it's their loss. Don't rush into it, though. It's really sexy to find a chick that hasn't been "tainted" by another guy. Guys get off on that, and they think they have something to teach you. So don't do everything a guy asks just because he's the first to show you any attention. Hold out for someone you actually like. Be patient and don't get depressed. Just get yourself out there and be available!

Answer 4

Girl, what makes you think something's wrong with you? If you see that you don't have flaws of some sort, you still think that just because you didn't kiss yet, there is something the matter?

It doesn't matter if you see other girls and guys have relations with each other. Your time will come with someone special which means there's a whole lot of opportunities to find your first kiss. There is nothing wrong with you! Lighten up! Go have some fun with the people you get along with.

Answer 5

First things first, DON'T CHANGE ANYTHING! If you dress differently, smile differently, flirt differently, dont' be yourself, soemone will ask you out, but they'll never like you for who you are. Someone will come along, dont' worry. Nothing is wrong with you. Have you ever thought, maybe it's the guy??? you're perfect the way you are!! I know people who are rude, and shallow, and they're all married and everything. You'll find someone. EVERYONE (pretty much) finds someone. You do need to be looking though. You know?

Answer 6

I never dated in high school either, that is fine, boy's that age aren't really anything to write home about. I didn't have my first date until 6 months after I graduated from high school and that was with a guy I had just met who was going overseas in the Army. Three years later we married and everyone thought it would never last.
Consider yourself just discerning enough to realize you wanted to avoid all that angst that 'true love' in high school can be.. you will be fine!! Within the next 3 years you will meet and marry a great guy; before your 25 you will have two beautiful kids.

Answer 7

I was the same way. I didn't have my first kiss until I was a Junior in high school, and after that I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was in college. My guess is that you're shy or maybe a little self consious? If so, don't worry, you'll find a guy that totally gets you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you!

Answer 8

I didn't have a serious boyfriend until my Senior year. Obviously, if you weren't picky and did not have standards, you'd be dating any guy who was conscious. Don't worry, the right guy will come along. If not in high school, then definitely in college. Meanwhile, work on planning your future. Get your game plan together. Guys who are successful like women who have their own thing going on. You can also try going to sporting events, church youth group, and charity work. Lots of college-bound guys do charity work to boost their resume.

Answer 9

NOTHING!!! Look, having a boyfriend isn't all that. I had one and it lasted for a week. Then I dumped him. I had just met the guy and he practically loved me and he was all upset when I did that. It was too rushed. The whole boyfriend, sex, and kissing really is over rated. Be yourself and if a guy doesn't like you for that, then he's not for you. The stress of a relationship isn't worth it and I know I didn't enjoy it. Plus, I found out that he didn't measure up. I know if I were you, I wouldn't worry, because I've been through that, and it isn't worth it.

Answer 10

nothing is wrong with you there is plenty of time for kissing and boyfriends after your education is finished. You wouldn't want to be strapped down with that stuff [guys] when your ready to tour England or France in the future would you? How about that great paying job you'll get in the future when you don't have to make supper.