Well, all she ever talks about,(the few times we do talk) is smoking weed and hanging out in a different town. Whenever I just want to talk she normally has some excuse. For example just today she said (by text) someone was using there phone so she couldn't talk. But she continued texting me. When i asked of she could talk or not she simply stopped talking.
I love this girl to the end of the earth and back, she is beautiful, and funny, and used to seem loving, but it seems like we have lost what we used to have. I'm afraid she has met someone new and wants to leave me. I am only 16 but that does not mean i cannot feel love. I wish somebody could give me useful advice, please, just tell me what you think.
2007-10-16 14:42:16 · 13 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, that's rough, dude. I'm not gonna lie, it sounds like the typical, high school way of breaking up with someone. In other words, the whole ignore him or her until he or she gets the picture thing.
I wanna say talk to her about it. But that's what you're trying to do, which is really, really great of you. You sound like a great guy. Just end it and move on.
I know you're going to hear this a lot. Right now, as I type this, other people are typing it too, but I'm going to say it anyways. You're only 16. You've barely met anybody, trust me. I know you love this girl, that's cool and totally legit. But it's also not the end of the world and she won't be the last person you'll ever love.
Don't be afraid to move on, my friend. Of course it'll be sad at first, but you'll meet someone new and wonderful. And hopefully she'll be as mature as you and open to talking about things.
No worries, bro. Do what you I think you know you have to do.
2007-10-16 14:50:42 · answer #1 · answered by M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does seem like she has lost interest, and this does happen. That is why you don't get married right after you meet someone. I know you love her, but you two have said "i do" she isn't required to love you back. Next time you see her, you need to be up front, and tell her exactly how you feel. Communication is key to having a good relationship. Scientifically, doing new things together helps a relationship stay strong. For example, learning to ice skate together, or going to see a new movie together. This is why, when people first start dating, they are so close. They have never kissed each other before, never held eachother's hand before, that kind of stuff. All of these new things, triggers a release in the brain, that make a relationship stronger. So, don't think it is the end of the world if she doesn't have feelings for you anymore. If it is meant to be, then she'll come back to you, if not, then maybe your future wife is out there looking for you too. :)
2007-10-16 14:50:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really love your girlfriend then just trust her and believe in her. if u really think she doesn't want u anymore, u should just leave her. i know, i know, u love 2 the end of the earth and back. but think about it, if she wants 2 b with someone else, don't u want her 2 b happy. if love her as much as u say u do then do whatever u can 2 make her happy. i think u should talk to her, see what's going on with her. best of luck and hope i was able 2 help.
-joe boi-
2007-10-16 14:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by joe boi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people change.
You are young and everything is so fresh and so sensitive.
She is trying to escape by smoking pot, and she is not ready for a serious relationship at this age. You need to just enjoy the ride of a free not going anyplace relationship - and wait it out till she decides what she really wants and grows up - or get away for a while to see what else life has to offer. It hurts - but if it is real she will realize it later and take you seriously. If things are meant to be they work out - but don;t sit waiting for life. It is meant to live. : )
2007-10-16 14:47:40 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have tried to talk to her it is up to you to try once more and if she does not listen then it is time to move on at age 16 emotions can change quick have you ever considered on all the things you have missed out on by holding on to something that might not be there anymore , learn to let love go so that you may learn from the past and find someone even more fun
2007-10-16 15:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by softy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely ... if there is not greater love or feeling in the direction of her ... then you definately 2 should not be mutually. i think of you 2 could take a seat mutually and talk issues by ... be trouble-free yet don't be merciless. have faith me, we ladies human beings delight in greater while you're guy sufficient to interrupt up in an quite civilized way. some men are basically one in all those coward that once the relationship does not look to paintings anymore, they only develop into one in all those jerk and a**hollow ... then they the two cheat or basically vanish and disappear ... the two strategies are a huge NO-NO for us. stable luck!!!
2016-10-09 09:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First 16 is an emotional age, second you should stay away from someone doing drugs, third she has already broken up with you, fourth you need to move on and find someone better.
2007-10-16 14:46:03 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and learn from your experience. There are millions of fish in the sea. Look at all the Hollywood Progressives who go through women like pantyhose. Relax and Watch Finding NEMO and go out and campaign in support of our troops. When you turn 18 get plastered and join the MARINES - I did.
2007-10-16 14:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her this question, if she have someone else, then she will not come back to you, then you will not feel the horrible pain of love after 1 or 2 yrs when you find out it yourself.
good luck!
2007-10-16 14:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by Binh P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smoking weed takes up peoples life. It may not be you , its just she likes weed better. i know my son is the same way . Weed becomes more important then anyone
2007-10-16 14:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by Moondrmz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋