...but I'm too afraid to confront him because he used to beat me. What should I do?
2007-10-16 14:23:19 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
sign him up on here, and let me have him make some football bets with me...that'll teach him not to mess with you again.
2007-10-16 20:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You made a life and you are responsible for protecting it. Get to a hospital to have your child looked at and the abuse documented before it is too late. There are lots of shelters out there that won't tell the big jerk where you are. Whatever you do, don't drop the charges and don't go back. Your lives hang in the balance and it is your choices that will seal the deal for all of you.
2007-10-16 16:06:33 · answer #2 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not going to sugar coat this. Your stupid for staying the first time he started hitting you. AND he dont really love you so don't say that or let him tell you that. IF he is hitting your child You should be calling the cops on his sorry butt. Wake up What if he goes to far and your child ends up dead or you? It won't be pretty and your son/daughter needs a mother. Don't be stupid after you read this you need to start packing and leave. Don't be selfish Your child don't deserve it. You know its wrong cuz your asking what to do. ANSWER leave its the smart and safe thing to do and your child will love you for it.
2007-10-16 15:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by JennyP 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u don't handle it without involving the police!!! HE IS CRAZY AND U AND UR BABY R IN DANGER! he's telling u what he will do, don't take any chances! if he will slap u in the face he will do more harm it's only a matter of time. baby daddy or not no one deserves to be abused. U R BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. THERE ARE MEN OUT THERE THAT WILL NOT ABUSE U THAT WILL LOVE U AND UR CHILD. ABUSE IS A VICIOUS CYCLE IF NOT ENDED BY U. END IT NOW GET OUT GET HELP. GO TO POLICE NOW DON'T WAIT!!!!!!! UR LIFE DEPENDS ON IT. ALOT OF WOMEN TAKE THESE TYPE OF THREATS AS A JOKE PLS DON'T TAKE IT AS A JOKE ACT FAST AND PLS PLS ACT NOW!!!!!!!!!
2016-03-13 00:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't call child protective services and get a restraining order, you never deserve a Mother's Day card ever again. What is wrong with you? A mother is supposed to protect her child. End of story.
2007-10-16 16:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might be scary, and you feel insecure, but you have to do something!
this child can not defend themselfs.. and you need to that for him/her.
You need to be brave, get out of that house and straight to the police.
You need to be strong for this child, i know its scary, but i know i would do anything for my son and i would defend him in any way i can, and i if i was scared i'd probably sneak out and leave the house with the baby and a bag or 2 and go straight to the police, and then find someone like a parent or a close friend where i could stay.
And i think you should do that. It is not worth staying with someone like that.
2007-10-16 15:17:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. You may be afraid of him, and that's why you need help, it's no longer just about you, it's about the safety of your child. If you are living with him, you need to find someone you trust to go too, don't stay there any longer.
2007-10-16 16:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bless your heart! Get out of there... now! You and your baby are worth too much. If you have family or close friends around, tell them what's going on and get their help. Document the abusive behavior and enlist the help of a local women's agency. Good luck, sweetie...
2007-10-16 14:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Zachary's Mom 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have many options, start by contacting a womens shelter to remove yourself and your child from the situation. Then contact the police to make a report. You have to be strong and do what it is right for your child. That child can not defend itself, it is up to you to protect your child. I would get out as soon as possible. Every minute in an abusive situation is a minute too long.
2007-10-16 14:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by roses_daggers 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT NOW. I MEAN RIGHT NOW - pack a bag with some of your baby's clothes, tell him you're going to the store to get milk, and LEAVE. Don't be a fool. Get out as fast as you can with your child. Come on, maybe you could "tolerate" this behavior toward you but TOWARD YOU CHILD? Get out. NOW.
2007-10-16 15:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by gentle understanding 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that your child is on loan from God and you are totally responsible for the child`s well being.Plus youre setting this child up for a horrible life empower yourself with word of God and get some help.Do you know there is so much love and support out there for you and your child.P lenty of women including myself.It takes a little bit of love from your spirit to protect your baby.What if that devil driven man kill your baby ?How much of that can you live with?
2007-10-16 14:39:24 · answer #11 · answered by mothergoose67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋