I recently said no to a man who simply wanted to get to know me better? Of course now I regret what could have been, do you think he might give me a second chance?
2007-10-16 13:10:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're honest and sincere I would think if he's any type of gentlemen he will. If he doesn't maybe he wasn't worth the effort.
2007-10-16 13:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by pbonck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how the hell can you regret "what could have been"? that's the dumbest, most selfish thing I've read today. For whatever reason, couldn't have been too good since you didn't give it, you didn't want to be bothered at first. What's changed? did you find out he has money? did you hear something great about him that you didn't know before? get over yourself! is he supposed to be all happy now that you want him to "get to know you"? I would laugh in your face! why make someone a priority when they see you as an option?...
2007-10-16 20:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by bustobabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy another chance. He wants to get to know you better. and at the same time you will get to know him. Who knows what may develop from there. He may just be the one you've been waiting for.
2007-10-16 20:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by sumfin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't already commited to someone else, then he might. Since you're still interested, then it's safe to assume that he might be as well. But just out of curiosity, why do we have to be over 30 to answer your question?
2007-10-16 20:17:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a desperate, weakling shadow of a man - probably.
If he has any self respect & confidence - he'll move on to someone who appreciates him.
You might save yourself some embarrasment & move on also.
There are few things less attractive than a timid & confused female.
2007-10-16 20:16:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you really want it ,you can find a way.
you could call him and talk and invite him for coffee.
Drop a note in the mail,and say your sorry and
ask him if he would like to get to know you.
I feal your going to have a nice romance with him.
2007-10-16 20:23:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do think that he will give you a second chance because you must be appealing if he asked you out a first time so just go up to him and ask him if he'll give you a second chance
2007-10-16 20:14:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't ever go backwards. If there was something about this person that did not appeal to you, take it as a warning to stay away.
2007-10-16 20:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jack S. Buy more ammo! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, I think he will. I mean as long as he isn't preoccupied with another girl. Otherwise go for it!! Good luck!! :)
2007-10-16 20:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a woman tells me no, I'll never ask her again
2007-10-16 20:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by 144289 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋