I am 21, he is 23. He left yesterday. We have been living together for 3 years. I just have a few questions. I know I can write letters, but can I send a few pics in the letters or is that forbidden? Am I able to go to his graduation even though I am not family? I support him and love him so much. I am proud of him, but I must confess that this is the hardest thing I have ever done.
2007-10-16 12:04:48 · 10 answers · asked by crazy_anna_2000 3 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I wouldn't suggest sending anything other than letters while he is in basic.
Di's have been known to hold up pictures and use them to ridicule the recruit,. all part of the toughening process.
Yes, you can go to his graduation. It's usually on a very large parade ground, so getting in is no big deal.
I can believe you, this being the hardest thing you've gone through. He will be saying the same thing. But if he keeps his ears and eyes open and his mouth shut and works as a team with the other recruits, he'll get through it.
I'd love to see the look on your face when you see him at graduation.You''ll love what you see.
2007-10-16 12:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Barry auh2o 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can and should send pictures, he will love them and look at them every chance he gets. Like another answer already stated though, everyone will see them, so look your best!
Yes, you can and should go to Graduation. About 1 month before the grad date he should be able to send you all of the coordinating information so you can attend.
Yes, it is hard and it totally sucks, but like another answer already stated it does get easyer with time.
Your support will have a large impact on his carrier. Every Marine I know that has a super supportive Girlfriend/wife, does way better in the Marine Corp than the not so supported ones.
2007-10-16 20:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pictures are accepted and welcomed. You do not need to be family to go to his graduation. In third phase, which will be his last month in boot camp the DIs will ask the recruits for names attending the graduation, make sure he include you or you'll have a hard time getting on base. Hope this helped.
2007-10-17 10:18:50 · answer #3 · answered by Frederich S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think this is hard...wait! Yes you can send pics but nothing risque. Letters are very welcome and really, really needed...often. I would ask a recruiter about going to the graduation. I don't foresee a problem with that but before you make the trip I would make sure. He will need all the support that you can give him. Tell him thank you for me! I appreciate all the men and women in uniform who are willing to defend our freedom.
2007-10-16 19:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by Free Thinker 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he at Parris Island or San Diego?
If he's at PI this is the place to go. It will keep you sane during Boot Camp.
Yes , you can go to his graduation. It's really fun. You're in for a real experience joining the Marine Corps family. Semper Fi!
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2007-10-16 20:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bryan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Non-spouses don't get the same treatment as family. You will be able to go to his graduation, but the military won't let you live on base or even go there on a regular basis to see him. You will have to move at your own expense and live off-base to be with him.
2007-10-16 19:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lavrenti Beria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can send pics if you want - but don't send anything you don't want people to see. You can even send small care packages - just make sure it's something he can share, because he may have to. You can go to his graduation - pretty much anyone can.
I'm sorry this is so hard on you. I promise it gets easier over time
2007-10-16 19:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you can write letters, send pictures and attend graduation.
Your boyfriend has to talk to his Drill Sergeant and they will allow you to attend his graduation. They will send you a packet with directions and instructions for the day of graduation.
2007-10-16 19:09:21 · answer #8 · answered by Bubba 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
support him all the way,he needs you now more than ever!when he finishes,probably will go to Iraq or Afghanistan.the most important thing you can do when he is deployed is to send him letters every week,mail call is his lifeline to you! been there done that in another war.God bless.
2007-10-16 19:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pictures yes, but TASTEFUL.. something you;d let your grandmother stick on her mantle. NO FOOD and NOTHING other than cards or letters. to save him tons of grief, do not perfume the letters or put cutesy crap on the envelopes.
yes you can go to graduation.
2007-10-16 22:53:46 · answer #10 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋