Because I caught my cousin and my archenemy gossiping about me...(don't ask how I caught him, just lets say that he was saying some personal stuff about me and he KNOWS that the archenemy tried to kill me 11 years ago)
I plan on being real cool with my cousin, but I am not inviting him to my wedding (which, btw, he is REALLY looking forward to)
I cannot tell him how i feel or talk to him, because his wife is a BULLDOG and won't let me within 5 feet of him, but this is the only way I can get him back.
2007-10-16 11:22:57 · 9 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Why do you have to get him back? Be a man/woman and tell him what is what straight to his face. How do you know for sure he was talking about you? If you definitely know it then confront it. Don't go around doing the same thing he is doing it just belittles yourself and makes you look ridiculous.
You know now that your cousin is just as two faced as your archenemy. Leave it at that and let it go.
2007-10-16 11:31:30 · answer #1 · answered by mamabee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Archenemy? What are you a superhero?
But seriously, be the grownup in the relationship and show that petty stuff like gossiping is below you. Dont disinvite family out of spite. Calmly talk to him and express how it made you feel by phone if his wife wont let you near him (which I cant understand)
2007-10-16 18:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
You're spending an awful lot of time and energy worrying and plotting about this, and I bet he doesn't even care. He probably would be disappointed not being invited to your wedding, but don't do it just to "get back" at him.
Be mature, if he was discussing personal information that you confided to him to anyone then you should confront him and tell him you do not appreciate that. If you really don't want him at your wedding, then don't invite him, but don't make the decision as a way to get revenge.
2007-10-16 19:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you need to grow up and stop acting like a child and so what they were gossiping . let it go just cause they want to act like children does that mean that you have to ? Be the bigger person and get over it .
2007-10-16 18:28:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I think communication is a better way to go about it. Ask him whats up with that.
2007-10-16 18:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lost Poet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that will show him for sure.
You're real mature there, aren't you? Generally people who are getting married have outgrown the juvenile, jr. high need to get back at people.
2007-10-16 18:59:56 · answer #6 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds utterly childish unless you live in a comic book. Archenemy? Please.
2007-10-16 18:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
by not inviting him??? invite him and only him to your planning day or whatever ad tell him. or text him and tell him to promtly delete it.
2007-10-16 18:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by MK 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually think he gives a d@mn?
2007-10-16 18:26:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋