there is this girl i kind of like, but she had a bad expierence with this guy, he broke up with her twice, told her he wsa cheating and everything, a week later he called her sayin he loves he and wants her back and wont cheat, he sent flowers and told her to call if he still had a chance, she did, then he went to her restaurant were she works with another girl, she broke down and left work. then he called her all kinds of dirty stuff over the phone like dirty c unt wh ore, etc. then he came back asking for another chance, she said its damaged, but he said let him fix it, she said ok. she said she shouldnt love someone like him, what does this meen? after saying she would let him fix things, he never callled back, what do you think will happen? when he broke up with her the first time she said she would never talk to him againIF SHE COULD HELP IT. wtf?!
2007-10-16 11:16:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess she likes being treated like trash. No really it sounds like she has low self esteem.
Some times after a man breaks you the way it sound like he has they just can't let go and stand on there own. Give it time, If you like her let her know how you feel and be there for her. She come around.
2007-10-16 11:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by † Dark Slayer † aka: NiSeY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard for some to break off relationships because they fear rejection. They don't want to feel the pain that comes along with the end of the relationship. Sooner or later they face this fear anyway. Because the person that keep doing the same thing over and over really just want to see how much the person will take. After they see the person taking the abuse over and over again they lose respect for that person and will find someone else. If they don't already have someone. She will let this go soon. It's just hard for her because she was sincere in the relationship. He really doesn't care that's why he keep repeating the same behavior. In time she will be able to go on and mend her life back together. Hopefully will be able to pick out this type of behavior in the next relationship. Take care.
2007-10-16 18:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by relationcounseling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this to me, seems to be typical "I can't quite catch this man" syndrome. I dated a man that was the same way, cheated, flaunted it, then wanted me back...problem was it was only for awhile. Seems to be the same thing with the girl you like. In my opinion, don't be the "friend" that listens to everything. I personally am attracted to men that seem to not care if I am attracted to them or not...try that?! Don't be rude, but be a little off limits to her. It just may work!
2007-10-16 18:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by I hang with the BIG DOGS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to make up her mind. its not worth it if she keeps goin bac and forth between single and a guy who constantly cheats. and besides u only KIND OF like her n e way.s.
2007-10-16 18:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by kivasiri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude she is so co dependant on him . Leave this one alone . it is too complicated and he has messed her head up way too bad . find someone who is available . good luck .
2007-10-16 18:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋