Have you ever been so turned on by a woman's appearance that you feel the need to force yourself on her? Who's fault would it be if you did?
I am not trying to be offensive with this question or make a joke. I seriously want to know what others think because apparently my ideas are different from others.
2007-10-16 09:20:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
ultimately the blame rests with the man.
and no.
I have been incredibly turned on by a woman's appearance, however I think it takes a few screws loose to make the kind of statement to justify rape that you made.
take it in the opposite. Can I punch someone in the face becasue thier face was so abhorrent to me that I couldn't control myself.
2007-10-16 09:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think at times a woman can be such a gorgeous chunk of feminine beauty that if someone sees her that way, there is nothing wrong or politically incorrect to kindly compliment her on her extreme beauty.
Too often though guys will keep hitting on a very beautiful woman or as you said "forcing oneself on her"; force is not a good thing; especially after their advances have been clearly noted as unwanted, that is totally wrong and the guys fault, actually its pretty shameless.
2007-10-16 16:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been on this earth for a lot of years and seen a lot of very beautiful women but I have NEVER felt an urge to force myself on anyone.
I have watched scenes in movies where couples throw each other up against walls or on the bed and tear each others clothes off in the heat of passion. I've never done or wanted to do that to anyone. What is it with anyone who has that little control over themselves?
By the way, where are you going with this question? I think it's strange that you asked it.
2007-10-16 22:13:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
>Have you ever been so turned on by a woman's appearance that you feel the need to force yourself on her?
No
>Who's fault would it be if you did?
Mine, though if she was deliberately trying to turn me on to knowing nothing would happen she should shoulder some of the blame, but not the majority.
2007-10-16 16:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rossonero NorCal SFECU 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be your fault if you did. the Bible in Matthew 5:28 says "But I say to YOU that everyone that keeps on looking at a woman so as to have a passion for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart" So Jesus was putting emphasis on the fact that we need to control our thoughts, if we do not then when the oppurtunity arises we will act on our thoughts. It's all about self control. regards
2007-10-16 16:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by lg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter how turned on a man is, if she says no, stop, don't, or anything else that indicates she is not willing then he shows the proper restraint and stops. It would be his fault 100%. He is in control of his choices and actions.
2007-10-16 16:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha! My friend (well im not sure he's my friend) he thinks our gym teacher is hot. So one day we were outside playing soccer and he just goes close to her, and makes a move. I am serious! So after class the boys are in the locker room and we're like wtf man! Why did u do that? Althought it was funny it was scary. I think he might be an offender when he grows up. Anyways I asked him what happened and he's like "Well my little friend came and he just took over and I just had an urge to do that." So we all just stared at him like :O and like :?. So then everyone just talked about him for the rest of the day. He didn't get in trouble either. I hope this helps!?
2007-10-16 16:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe Im weird but I dont seeing forcible rape as a turn on in any way.
If a woman is extremely sexually attractive, GREAT but my mind doesnt go to unwilling sex.
And if a man forces himself on a woman, IT IS ALWAYS HIS FAULT. Regardless of what she looks like, or how she dresses, hes wrong. Period. No exceptions
2007-10-16 16:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
O.O
No. See, I was raised to know rape is bad. But you asked about thoughts. Still no. I'd prefer sex to be consensual.
If by some fluke I decided to rape some woman, it'd be my fault, as 'd be the aggressor.
2007-10-16 16:24:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have seen and been with many fantastically attractive women, and never equated my desire for them with the desire to injure them with force of any kind. Another person is not a conquest, so even lying is out for me. Of course, I always wanted a partner, not a slave or a pigeon.
2007-10-16 16:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by neil s 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋