for the last 6 months i keep having these same types of dreams. their not always exactly the same, but essentially i see my ex somewhere, and start running after her, trying to talk to her. but she never sees me. then sometimes she disappears and i begin looking all over for her!!! it's always me chasing her, looking for her. and its driving me insane. i mean we have been broken up for two years!!! we were together for about 3 years, and really good freinds before that, for forever. but i mean i am over it, i have been over it. shes over it. its all in the past. but why the hell do i keep looking for her in my dreams!?
2007-10-16 08:54:45 · 17 answers · asked by Sue 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
i cant call her i dont know her number. and she dosnt know mine. we don't talk. havent seen her in probably a year. i really am over her.
2007-10-16 09:17:32 · update #1
in the dream i feel this urgency to find her. but its upsetting because in the end i never do.
we broke up on okay terms. she left me for a guy. but we talked about it. and she it still with that same guy to this day.
and no i am not with anyone right now. but its because there are not enough young gay women in this city!
2007-10-16 09:24:14 · update #2
Maybe she put a spell on you.
2007-10-16 08:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it doesn't have anything to do with the love relationship you had. You mention that you were friends for years before you started going together, maybe you miss her presence and friendship in your life. Did the break up go badly? Is there any possibility the friendship could be repaired as a friendship? That she never sees you, and you are behind her seems as though you consider it all to be in the past for her. Why don't you try giving her a call, just to chat, if that is reasonable?
It is, unfortunately hard to go back to being just friends with someone once you've had a relationship with them, but not impossible, I am still friends with an ex from high school....
2007-10-16 09:13:04 · answer #2 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when was the last time you talked to her? maybe there is something that you need to tell her and that is why you are having those dreams. The obvious is you still possess some lingering feelings for your ex. But there is probably little chance of reviving the relationship.
You need to learn from these emotional experiences since undoubtedly they will occur again in your life {love and loss}.
You need to 'get in touch' with these inner emotions, learn to accept such disappointments. If not future romances may suffer. Dont giving in to desires to 'chase' past experiences that have no future, you may need to look at future romances with an eye on past experiences, but without letting perceived failures interfere with future romantic experiences.
2007-10-16 09:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreaming about an ex is so normal. i have had dreams about mine too. I think it means you still have questions and in our dreams at night the brain is trying to figure things out and find solutions to our problems. It doesn't mean that you will get back together, usually. If he likes another girl, maybe your dreams are trying to figure out what happened between you both for him to want someone else. Dreaming is problem solving.
2016-04-09 08:01:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It simply means you have unresolved feelings for her. Why are you having so much trouble letting go? Is it the dream of "happily ever after"? The worry that you'll never find "that kind of love" again?
I had an ex that it took years to get over. I had to actively let him go, so I could move on with my life.
ANd the truth is, I am happier in my current relationship than I EVER was (or could have been) with my ex. It just took a while to figure that out.
Try having a "relationship funeral". Say goodbye, in a concrete way (not TO her, really, but figuratively).
2007-10-16 09:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by Leapfrog Lady 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is very clear what is running through your head. You feel like there are some things left unsaid with your ex. You want to talk to her, and somr part of you misses her, your relationship. Even though you see eachother in real life, I dont think you really see eachother the way you did when you were going out, which is normal. I think you should talk to her about this.
2007-10-16 09:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it maybe its because you might u think u have got over her, while you still love her.
this might also tell you that if u still love her, you are still heading for a lose end if you go after her because she always disappears in ur dreams and u never get to see her. anyway that might be a possibility, i dont mean to discourage u but thats a possibility.
good luck.
2007-10-16 09:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by dukesta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some unfinished business with her.
why dont you call her up and ask her out for a casual lunch or cup of coffee.
Since it's over, perhaps your unconcious is wanted to redevelop that friendship with her that you originally had.
good luck!
2007-10-16 09:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by DaBoomvang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
you say your over her are you sure?
you don't say if you have someone else.
you may not be over her you could be even jellous. dose she have someone else..
sounds like you don't want to let her go to me .
you need to find someone new to take your mind off her.
do you think of her before you go a sleep? ( is she the last thing on your mind ? )
what are you feeling in your dream when your chasing her ?
is she in some kind of danger or is she running away from you? have you spoken to her lately?
mabe you need to talk to her..
why did you break up in the first place? did you break up on good termsor was this hard?
only you know the answers to these questions..........
you need to ask yourself ............mabe you want her back.....................good luck.........Des
2007-10-16 09:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still bear affection for your ex and you want to find reason to find that spark with her again. careful though. shes your ex for a reason. wether you ended your relationship on bad terms or good, i recomend a bit of discretion.
yuki the cat and the terrible red one.
2007-10-16 09:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by R-T. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
homie u need closer with this chick and wat u need to do is first go get laid second call ur ex the next day and ask to talk to her in person some where and then tell her about the dream and go from there ight homie
2007-10-16 08:59:11 · answer #11 · answered by potwhole2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋