girls have been accusing my 8 yr old of stealing and she doesn't even go over to this girls house. She told this girl that and I don't know what I can do about it. Do I just let them work it out or do I stick up for my daughter, do I call the mother of this girl? I don't want other kids to not be friends with my daughter because of this. It makes her and me feel bad.
2007-10-16 08:31:03 · 22 answers · asked by Tessie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Since she is still so young I would contact the parents and let them know that she is spreading these lies. It sounds like the girl is jealous and does not want the others to be friends with your daughter. Tell your daughter to not talk to this girl, and talk to her other friends and their parents so they know that it is all lies so they don't believe it and not invite your daughter over.
2007-10-16 08:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
This is one of those times, I think, that you should speak directly with the parents of any of the girls who are accusing her. If someone really believes she is stealing, she could be set up for trouble (like if something in the class goes missing, etc., she might be a target because of this 'rumor'). Clearly if she has never been to this person's house, it's all just malicious behavior on the girls part. However, it's unacceptable. You should speak with the parents and then alert your daughter's teacher in the event these accusations are mentioned in school. I feel for you - kids (and their oblivious parents) can be so cruel.
2007-10-18 05:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Empress1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the little girls mom or go see her. Face to face with your daughters might work better then a phone call. Girls get very mean from this point on, so you will get more and more of this type of thing.
You won't always be able to help, but if you daughter is telling you what is happening, by all means step in and help!
Good luck to you and let this be a time of learning for you both.
2007-10-16 08:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by zannakc 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stick up for your kid and get the girl in trouble by notifying her parents. Normally I would say let it be snitches are worse but in 2nd grade it could mean your daughters rep for all of grade school. The girl needs to be taught a lesson and if the parents won't get involved I'd tell your daughter to put something of hers into the girls backpack and make it look as though the accuser is really the thief.
2007-10-16 11:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by robbodabbo2004 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like these girls already don't like her.
Go to the mother. Something is definitely not right. The mother may or may not be able to handle it, but if it gets any worse you need to teach your daughter how to stick up for herself and not let things bother her. Also, stand by her side, while trying to see all sides to the story.
If it gets to the point to where it is past petty fighting among gradeschoolers you need to step in.
2007-10-16 14:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by Sarai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would call the mother of the girl and ask if she is in fact missing items. Let her know that her daughter is blaming yours and that you are certain your daughter does not have these items. The other mother should get to the bottom of it.
2007-10-16 08:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest going over to the accusers home and settling it...being wrongfully accused is not morally right.. Teach your daughter to stick up for injustice.
2007-10-16 15:23:26 · answer #7 · answered by lost2day 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-29 13:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the girls and tell their mom. Help your daughter on how to work out a situation like this on her own.
2007-10-16 10:36:08 · answer #9 · answered by jadeypooh21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl's mom, in case she is stealing from the girl. Ask the girl's mom if her daughter wanted to play with something and it's gone, etc.
2007-10-16 11:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by ringtori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋