My ex and I were together for 2 years when I caught him cheating. I left him. Since then, in the past 4 months or so, he has come to me many times saying that I'm all he sees in his future. He wants to end things with her and be with me more than anything but he has to do it in his time. We are still very close and physically involved. We see each other on a regular basis.
I had a dream last night while he was over that we were at a friend's house and he needed to leave but I didn't want him to go. I wanted him to lie down with me and he would for a bit, but he kept getting up. I wanted him to stay so badly but it was as if I couldn't hold one to him.
I've also had other dreams where he ditches me to do something else.
What does this mean? Am I destined to forever want for him?
2007-10-16 07:59:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Remember dreams are your subconscious mind, things you are telling yourself subconsciously.
In your case, dreaming of your ex could just mean that you had this regret that he left you. You may be feeling guilty about the separation. However, whether or not he will be truthful to you is another matter. Your dream is basically telling you that you need companion or relationship badly. In translation, you are lonely at the moment and in your subconscious mind, he is the one you can find. Of course, the interaction you and him could also indicate there is will deep down in you that you want to get back with him. But again, this is only in your side, you will never know how it turns out, but hope for the best.
2007-10-16 08:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 18:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are lining up with reality. If you "wait" for him, you'll be waiting for a LONG time! He wants both you and the other woman. He knows what to say to keep you waiting. But his actions are speaking louder than his words, listen to them! You deserve better!!! Letting go is hard to do but do you really want to waste your heart and life on someone who has proven themselves untrustworthy of your devotion? A person's character is the predictor of what they will do. He's a cheater and that's what he'll continue to do. You can't change him. I'm sorry! You may want to consider moving up the food chain!
2007-10-16 08:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by Lover of Blue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always said...If he'll do it with you...(cheat) he'll do it TO you..
He's gonna break off with this other person "in his time"...OH PLEASE....he's USING you AND her....having his "cake and eating it, too"...AACCCKKKK!!! Wake up and smell the coffee, sister....
Why would he break off with EITHER one of you when he can obviously have you BOTH? Think he's sincere? Think again....Think he loves you? Think again....He's a "player"...and doing a danged good job of it sounds like...Your dream was right on the money...You CAN'T hold on it to him (too slimy!)...and you SHOULDN'T...
Ditch this dud and find someone who will REALLY love you....respect you...and treat you like you should be treated...
2007-10-16 08:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a dream ur brain makes them up thats all. Don't go back to him cuz once a cheater always a cheater
2007-10-16 08:03:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
How is it considered "breaking it off" when you still see them regularly and have physical relations with them?
hmm....
No wonder you're confused; the confusion is coming out in your dreams.
2007-10-16 08:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by getusedtoit 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋