is guy who just turned 25 , i'm 20 by the way, hes my coworker at the restaurant i work at , anyway , this guy is those cocky guys -pretty boy, anyway, we were talking about underagers using fake IDs to get into clubs, this guy knows im a virgin and i'm not sure if he thought about it with what he said, anyway, he said he screwed an eleven year old and he said how she was soo nice and tight and that it wasnt his fault that she was underage since she used a fake ID to get into a 21 and over club,he assumed she was old enough, i was disgusted when he said this, i admit i liked this guy b/c hes a very good looking guy but when he said this comment, my stomach turned , i asked him if he was joking and he said yes, but even as a joke, what kind of a man jokes about this stuff? what should i have done, i mean am i over reacting? he said this not only in front of me , but he said it in front of his buddy and another girl and they just laughed about it
2007-10-16 07:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by angel 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He knows you're a virgin?
What, do you have it tatooed on your forehead?
What he said was appalling.
Get over him, he's disgusting. Cute is as cute does.
2007-10-16 12:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by tehabwa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called shock humor, and not that different from any comedian. Seriously listen to what they actually say, it is really not that funny.
Granted it is not the best type of humor, but it probably was a spur of the moment thing. I wouldn't attach too much significance to a single occurrence but if he shows a tendency to saying a lot of gross comments you may not want to get involved.
By the way, I was in a store with my wife and saw some 12 year old Korean whiskey and I told her that I was going to buy a 12 year old Korean... It was a bad joke, but was said for the humor and not in any sense of reality.
2007-10-16 08:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if that's his idea of 'humor' with someone he doesn't know very well... he's rather crass.
crass jokes can be taken lightly between good friends who've known each other a long time and realize the crassness is a put-on; but to do that among casual co-workers shows low class - and at 25, he should know better.
2007-10-16 08:05:42 · answer #3 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the joke was disgusting and he is a jerk to say something like this in front of a lady, and in the workplace to boot. If you really wanted to I'm sure you could get him for sexual harassment, but unless this is something he does all the time I would just let it go.
2007-10-16 08:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are not over reacting. You should def. not pursue anything with him. If he even thinks about messed up crap like that then he could have a tendency to be some kind of sicko.
There's many more fish in the sea....
2007-10-16 08:05:22 · answer #5 · answered by laurel 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
eww thats just gross to talk in terms of being a potential pedofile esp at work. its inappropriate. f it was outside of work i wouldve taken it more jokingly but i think he was disgusting and rude. ignore this loser. hes 25 working at a restaurant, must have a lot of ambitions right? hes a loser!
2007-10-16 08:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by spadezgurl22 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Uh, can I say LOSER?!?!?!?!!!?! (Not you; HIM!!!) Joking about pedophilia is NOT funny. To answer one of your questions: No REAL man jokes about stuff like that. Sounds like pretty-boy is pretty full of himself, so blow him off.
2007-10-16 08:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats definitely not something to joke about. what a screwball. i really dont know what you shouldve done, b/c i dont know what i wouldve done, but you're not overreacting, this was a completely tasteless "joke".
2007-10-16 08:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by swtpeach725 3 · 9⤊ 0⤋
Classy - NOT.
Don't waste your time with this assh*le. Or should I say, statutory rapist.
2007-10-16 09:54:49 · answer #9 · answered by TLH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is gross.
2007-10-16 08:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Pepper F 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋