You know I always see it that guys would always have to approach girls, I'm fine with that but I just don't see girls approaching guys they like. Its like some of the girls I know like guys and then they just hope the guy will approach them one day. Well some guys won't approach them because they don't know their feelings. SO why is that? I mean the girls don't even attempt to be friends with them by asking about school work or something. I just wanna know if its the same reason why some guys don't approach girls they like. Thanks for reading.
2007-10-16 05:38:16 · 15 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's for the same reason. We all hate that feeling of rejection.
Also, when you like someone, you feel nervous around them, and it's hard to talk. You know your voice is going to sound funny and your hands might be shaking.
2007-10-16 05:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by slishou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally if the girl is bold and knows what she wants and is confident that she will not got rejected she will approach the male ... it goes the same for the man .. although it is harder for a woman to get rejected than a man .. men are sort of used to getting rejected but if a man rejects a women he is automatically gay .. even though he is not ... if you really like someone and you want to tell them approach them what is the worst that can happen get rejected well go expecting anything than you wont feel about the outcome ...
2007-10-16 05:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older things will change. Every boyfriend I have had I approached, which is super disappointing!! I don't think guys approach women my age, 27, nearly enough unless it's for sex.
2007-10-16 05:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how old you are or what circumstances you are referring to... but when I go to the bars, I have girls approach me all the time. Girls do it just as much as guys do.
2007-10-16 05:41:22 · answer #4 · answered by G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls have a bigger fear of rejection then guys I presume. Also, men can be intimidating, you don't really know what a person is like. Don't see what the big deal is though, I'd go up to him if I was interested.
2007-10-16 05:42:22 · answer #5 · answered by Incredible 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when a woman approaches me and tells me she is interested in getting to know me, I think that is really sexy. All of you women out there listen up.
2007-10-16 05:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by schneider2294@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my husband how I felt first, and well you can figure out the rest. Some girls are afraid of rejection....others are taught guys should make the first move.
2007-10-16 05:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by mandyb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll
i like making friends with the guy first
i think you need to know a guy as a friend if your gonna like him
otherwise i think theres really no point!
and i dont have too much of a problem with going up to guys, but i dont know...
im quite confident, but ill always have my insecurities to hold me back sometimes....
yeah hehe i hope that helped!
2007-10-16 05:43:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls go up to guys now a days, i went up to my boyfriend, i liked his car (64' impala) and now 4 years later we're engaged!!!!
2007-10-16 05:56:03 · answer #9 · answered by Paula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i every seldom approach girl.the girl i date ask me out.i feel if they like me that much or want to get to know me they will let me know.i think girls are a lot more forward than guys.
2007-10-16 05:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by dogasstired 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋