ok so i was sitting in the college library doing my class work when i hear these two girls speaking my language so i start talking to them and before they leave one of them invites me to a party they where throwing at their house so i went to the party and lets say everything went well. so whats next iam not really sure if the girl likes me or not so i dont want to ask her out i was thinking of maybe asking her to go shopping with me so it wont seem like a date so what would be the best advice u guys can give me. thanks no rude comments please
2007-10-16 05:31:16 · 9 answers · asked by jeffry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude chill wait till they become more closer then ask them out. Maybe she likes you as she was obsessed with you in the first meetin.this sounds like LOVE IN FIRST SIGHT SITUATION
2007-10-16 05:37:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just ask her out and don't play any games -- it's better to get to the point than beat around a bush! Don't ask her out to drinks, dinner & movies; maybe you can go for coffee and a really nice walk in the park or something -- but as a date -- shopping is not a date!!!!! Plus, if you go shopping you're bound to see other attractive girls and it will put you in the "FREINDS" category -- and you don't want that do you??? Nope, didn't think so! Good luck.
2007-10-16 05:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Faerie Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take the first step because I know that girls have a very hard time making the first step. We feel that men should be the first caller and ask her out first. It sounds like youa re hitting it off just dont make her think you are not interested by not calling her and asking her out. You may let a good thing go and be very sorry later.
2007-10-16 05:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are interested but don't want a one-on-one date yet, do what she did. Invite her to a group event, party, study group, coffee shop event, ect. She will let you know in some fashion if she is truly interested.
2007-10-16 05:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by the_red_head02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man and ask her on a real date.
2007-10-16 05:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by truefirstedition 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are in college. Let her contact you. If she doesn't, that's ok, move on. Or call her and ask her out for drinks.
2007-10-16 05:36:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for a real date...
2007-10-16 05:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like the shopping thing and get to know her dont act desperate and take it slow buy her some ice cream at the mall !!
2007-10-16 05:35:43 · answer #8 · answered by *********** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her shopping, buy her something nice, keep it real. be yourself. if it goes well ask her out on areal date
2007-10-16 05:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by carreira_lucious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋