I feel like wherever i go, people are not interested in meeting me. i'm decent looking guy, i'm always dressed and groomed well. I think i'm a pretty interesting person. I'm african american and i hang around mostly whites. It bothers me when i see groups of people taking and i'm kinda the outcast lingering in the shadow. I know that i should approach and make conversation, but why can't people come to me.
2007-10-16 04:57:45 · 7 answers · asked by CuriosityKills 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just maybe the whites feel uncomfortable around you so you have to start the conversation jump in and be proud of who you are let them know you want to get to know who they are iam a very well like person because of that reason i can talk to anyone anywhere because i know who iam so maybe you need to find yourself just a thought
Good luck and i would hang with you
2007-10-16 05:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, do I know how you feel about seeing groups of kids and not feeling part of it!
When I was in school, I didn't feel well liked. Later, as time went on, I found out it wasn't anything to do with me personally, just that I was quiet.
It sounds like you might be quiet too, and you already know that you have to make the moves. Why don't people come to you? Nothing to do with you, just that we are all lazy - you, me, and those kids in the group. We wait for somebody else to do the talking.
Practice being a little more outgoing. Concentrate on making other people feel good. Just make a little effort, and other people will meet you halfway. :D
2007-10-16 12:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by slishou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i don't care who does and doesn't like me. You should become more approachable. Don't try to be in the in crowd because you may appear to be awkward in doing so. If you already have friends what is the problem. If you really want to meet people just have small talk for example did you watch the game yesterday or I like that game too......etc. And like WinterBo.. said earlier it may be low confidence or self-esteem and people notice that. Believe in yourself and people will believe in you.
2007-10-16 12:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by NIkki Wikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm liked by some, not by others, and misunderstood by many (because I'm shy, which is often mistaken for arrogant or aloof).
It bothers me sometimes but not enough to go around making nice-nice with those who don't seem to feel I'm their cup o' tea. They'll either get to know me and like me for who I am, or not...and either is okay. I know not everyone is going to dig me...just as I don't dig everyone I meet.
2007-10-16 12:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's low confidence on your part.
If you lack confidence, simply ACT as if you do. Eventually, it becomes natural and it's not an act any longer.
2007-10-16 12:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by WinterBorn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tough man, I'd say just play it cool, if you try too hard ppl can tell. I have a roommate right now that just says the most ****** up **** to me all the time. I just ignore him
2007-10-16 12:02:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i fell liked
Master\**^**/Joker
2007-10-16 12:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Master Joker 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋