Ok, lets say, you had a problem, like in a relationship, friendship, family, etc. but the problem is not that big that you need to see a professional.You also, would not want to be going through formal counseling, more like, you are confused about something and don't know which direction to go? You also, kind of just need to vent but you dont really have people that you can talk to, or you dont feel comfortable telling your business to someone who you know, because of fear that they might judge you. So, you decide to ask advise. Do you think it is fair for the person who takes their time to listen to you, should at least charge you for their time? Lets say, like a dollar for a question? Or a dollar to hear you vent? This person does not necesarily need to be your friend, and does not need to be a counselor. But, do you think you would pay, if you did, would you pay it feeling grateful and thankful that this person took their time to listen to you, hear you vent?
2007-10-16 04:06:32 · 28 answers · asked by Yahoo User 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If the person was a professional and good at what he/she did, it would be worth the few extra bucks.
2007-10-16 04:09:31 · answer #1 · answered by Andre 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I specifically came to the person knowing that he/she was a professional at this, I would expect to pay. If I thought I were talking to a family member or friend and then the person asked me for money, I would be very surprised. It seems to me that, if a person has been blessed with wisdom, that person should share it freely, lest it be taken away.
Another way to make money at something like this is to get qualifications to be a professional counselor. Or become an advice columnist.
2007-10-16 14:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best advice you will receive will be from those who know you the best. A true friend won't judge you, and should be willing to listen to any concerns you have free of charge. If you really feel uncomfortable with a friend, and you want to vent to someone who doesn't know you at all, e-mail me, no charge : )
2007-10-16 04:11:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's right to charge someone unless you are a counselor. The reason is the person might give you an answer you want to hear instead of what's a better choice or what's realistic. There's plenty of people willing and wanting to talk to you that giving them a dollar isn't needed. If you want to talk to someone, feel free to e-mail me.
Good luck
Beth
2007-10-16 04:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once you start something like that you are giving that person power by giving them money. Trust me. I have studied many years to learn that money = power.
Don't let anyone have power over your personal life. Let someone near you help you. Don't involve a total stranger who may at will disclose anything he/she choses to anyone. The person would not feel grateful/thankful. They would think you were nuts, but would never say it to your face. No matter how much you paid them, and the more you paid them the more foolish they would think you were!!
Either leave it to a professional or pay no one at all!!! You cannot buy trust or someone's time.
2007-10-16 04:12:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's weird.
I know you can't relate to this, but generally people would not want a dollar per question, etc. Human beings interact all the time without compensation; it is what builds relationships.
Your anxiety and reclusiveness is getting the better of you. While you are not interested in professional help, you would SERIOUSLY benefit from it.
Forget this idea and take care of your mental health. See your Dr. for guidance.
2007-10-16 04:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by snoopy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a stupid idea. I'm not going to spill my business to a stranger who doesn't even have a degree in counseling or psychology. What a waste of time and money. I have friends so I'd just tell them. A friend is the best counselor anyway.
2007-10-16 04:09:37 · answer #7 · answered by gallstaff1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would go to some free counseling like at a church or something. Getting paid to listen and give advice should be free unless they are a professional. Something doesn't sound right about this arrangement.
You can ask me for free via email. I give good advice:)
2007-10-16 04:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by funngirly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, thats what yahoo answers is for!!! does everything have to have a price now? you want people to talk to you and hear you and listen go to a coffee shop or a whole in the wall bar youll find tons of people who are looking for just what you are or the bar tender. seriously i wouldnt pay. Good luck and dont pay for people to listen to you.
2007-10-16 04:11:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lux 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it is professional advice, there is no reason to pay. Friends should listen to you because that's what it means to be a friend. Their advice could be totally worthless because they are not trained to help you. Usually, they will just agree with you.
If you want honest helpful advice, go to a therapist and pay for it.
2007-10-16 04:11:34 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't pay bar tenders and wait staffs get this all the time they get tips but if they are good they get a bigger tip!
if i wanted to pay i would pay for professional help!
1. if i have to worry about friends judging me then i dont have the right friends <-- that's a cry for help at least to me!
do you see what i'm saying!
i hope so
Good luck!
2007-10-16 04:16:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋