I babysit him when his parents work durring the weekday M-F, Do you think its fair for the parents to just drop him off whatever days they want to, and not call and tell me I wont have him on this or that day. I end up babysitting only about 3 days out of five because they are NO SHOWS. I need to know when I watching him because I make RSVP's for fieldtrips to keep the kids occupied and educated durring the week. My husband thinks I'm being extremely B---itchy for being upset that they don't show or not call and calling them RUDE!
I would like to know what others feel and to know If I am being B--itchy or correct on my part.
2007-10-16 02:05:24 · 18 answers · asked by Too Much!! 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
You should be treated like they would treat any other daycare center!!!! (or babysitter) On friday or monday, they need to tell you what days they'll need you. Drop off and pick up times. You are the boys Aunt, but you still have stuff you need to do! I'd just sit and talk to them!
2007-10-16 02:12:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No way that is extremely rude on their behalf. Especially if they are not paying for your services. You need to talk to them about this an tell them you would like a roster and curtesy call if they are not bringing him or are going to be late. They need to realise that you have a life aswell and they can't expect you to be at their beckon call when ever they want. They wouldn't like it if the tables were turned.
Be nice about it but stand your ground they might just be so busy they don't realise what they are doing and they might be gratefully and very apologetic once you have told them.
If they are not then you need to rethink if you really want to continuing to do this massive favour for them.
2007-10-16 02:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. You are doing them a huge favor and they are taking advantage of you. You need to write out a contract that includes your hours and the prices you charge. If they show up at odd hours, you need to tell them firmly that you have other plans. There should also be fees for no-shows. If they were not dealing with a relative, they could not get away with that kind of behavior.
Your husband should realize that these people are extremely inconsiderate and that their needs should not conflict with your other plans.
2007-10-16 02:16:01 · answer #3 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its bitchy at all for you to be upset that they dont call you when they arent going to drop the kid off.. They should totally let you know that they arent bringing him on those days, even if its just that morning! Talk to them and tell them how you feel!
2007-10-16 02:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by justplainsweet83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. You need to explain to them what you require of them in order to continue babysitting their son. If they can't adhere to your requirements, they can find other arrangements. Just because you're not an "official" day-care center, that doesn't mean they have the right to treat you like a doormat or like your time doesn't have value.
2007-10-16 02:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell them that there is to be a schedule and tell them that they have been no shows and it isn't fair for you to be expected to have them and then they decide to drop them off at a drop of a hat and that you have your own life to no your not being bitchy you are just tired of them being irresponsible if they cannot comply with your rules maybe they need someone else to watch the kids
2007-10-16 02:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by dreamweaver 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 08:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by ragoonanan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only fair that they call and let you know if they won't be showing up. You also have to plan yout day. Even if you are getting paid, they have to call. How much less when they are not?
2007-10-16 02:18:11 · answer #8 · answered by Ayo A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to know what is going on. its your life too. I would tell the husband to shut up and then call them and explain how its going to be from now on. and if not then tell them you cant do it anymore. or dont be home when they want to dump the nephew on you without warning.
2007-10-16 02:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely correct. You need to charge them for days they don't bring him over if you expected him.
If you have to cancel a field trip and it costs you money. Make them repay you.
Tell them you are busy one time they bring him over. When they get mad, remind them this is what they do every week.
2007-10-16 02:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by dkgroce 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋