i dont have nothing against my mother in -law but thare were a few things that bother me alittle to much but everytime that i told my wife she would get mad or upset . for example i would plan like lets go to the gymm and from there i was ganna take her to eat at a restaurant and then like 10 to 15 minutes later her mom calls and ask her to go with her some where and she cancells our plan and im like what the hell i didnt even knew about it until she told after what i told what i wanted to do cause i worked in the graveyard and i would only see her during the weekends and she still would go to her moms all the time and i would plan things and she would cancell them like for a whole week until i told her how i flt about it and she stoped for a fe days and then she would start again and i just got tire cause i thought we were married and not my wife and her mom , was i wrong or right?
2007-10-16 00:01:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like your wife is putting her mother first, and that's wrong. She's got her priorities mixed up. Before making plans with her mother, she needs to talk with you, or if she already has plans with you, she shouldn't be making plans with her mother. It's time for her to grow up and realize that you come first!
2007-10-16 00:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by N L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let your wife know how you feel when she cancels your plans with her and goes with her mom instead... "I feel let down, i feel left out of your life" or however you feel.
Let her know how important it is to you to spend time with her too.
I'm sure you wouldn't mind if she did things with her mom and family, if she didn't cancel on you. That is rude, at best.
You could also ask your wife if there is a problem, or issue and how she feels the two of you could work it out.
Sometimes, (calm) communication works best.
take care.
2007-10-16 02:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work in a graveyard?! thats so cool, ever seen anything paranormal?
You need to talk to your mother in law, communication is key. Be as truthful as possible. And your wife doesn't sound very wifey. Talk to her too.
good luck! â¥
2007-10-16 00:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥kisses♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should talk to your wife and your mom in law if required about her interference in your mrried life and how it is effecting you,talk about it and sort it out once and for all...good luck!
2007-10-16 01:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear...ive problems with my mother in law 2...whenever i ve a fight with my wife she pokes her nose in n make the situation worse..anyways..talking to ur wife wont help... she maybe love her mom more..,tak to ur mom in law describe her how this is effecting ur relationship ..this is the only way out...if it works..
2007-10-16 00:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by iveaquestion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a failled marriage from now just communicate would work out , good luck make her happy
2007-10-16 00:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by shadow_relevant03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋