first ill say that if your one of those close minded religions people you can just leave right now. i don't need a lesson from you.
i cast a strong love/friendship binding spell. to make my friend and i closer. its still going strong. but iv always been a independent person and now i find that if were not spending every second together i feel lost and alone.
my question is. has it backfired? is it doing more damage than good? if you have a more personal answer or need to know more, feel free to email me.
2007-10-15 19:19:32 · 13 answers · asked by Derick 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
as far as my personal luck goes. its been terrible i crashed my new bmw have two speeding tickets and a court date. iv been driving for two years with a clean record and now this all just happened at once.
2007-10-18 20:28:05 · update #1
I've found that spells rarely backfire. The problem is usually what is actually being asked and the intent behind the spell.
Having said that - I suspect the problem you've facing here may actually not have anything to do with the spell, rather than the issues/motivation that caused you to cast it in the first place.
Look at your reasoning/motivation & you might your answer
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2007-10-15 23:46:34 · answer #1 · answered by Rai A 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Spell or no spell, you have an unhealthy fixation on this friend, and are way too emotionally invested in him/her if you feel lost and alone when you're not spending every second together. That bespeaks of insecurity on your part.
You need develop yourself as an individual person. Your friend also needs the freedom to be able to breathe and do that.
No offense intended, but why did you need a spell in the first place? Wouldn't it be a more authentic relationship if it had just grown naturally--or was it that you didn't trust that your friend would feel the same and you wanted to try to make sure?
I mean, love is love - it is either there or not. If it is there, it doesn't need a spell to make it stronger. If it is not there, a spell can't make it authentic.
2007-10-16 02:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Spells are not the answer, everyone has free will, when you try to force someone to act or react the way you want by casting spells...you actually redirect negative energy towards yourself. therefore explaining the events happening to you.
2007-10-24 02:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by seedlett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you attempt to interfere with another's free will? Did you attempt to charm emotion or dependency?
Karma: your action, inevitable cause and effect. Congratulations, you have won yourself a Learning Experience...
WHY cast such a spell? You need to understand this about yourself, and take responsibility... What did you envision happening, and was it ethical? This, too, you need to understand.
2007-10-16 02:45:27 · answer #4 · answered by SC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you think something has backfired then you should realize your expectations in the light of what you can and can't control as we are all subject in some degree to the laws of probability even if it's just whether you were born with the facility to realize or have the education to realize .sometimes we give up and resign ourselves to what it is .we learn to cope with what we can't yet control or change . the decision however is in the final analysis is yours.
2007-10-16 02:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it actually worked better than you expected. That's the problem with working against free will and not wording things appropriately. I would suggest un-doing what you've done before any more harm comes from it.
2007-10-16 09:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by Keltasia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never underestimate the power of the spoken word....wow.
love and friendship...both are equally powerful, but put them together with a binding spell?!!
Let me think about this one...and i will have to get back with you on it.
Blessings
)o(
2007-10-16 02:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by trinity 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OOH I think you spell just went from Friend to Love. Its not a bad thing but it does make one dependent.
Was this your intent to fall in Love? If yes good if No you should learn Love spells can go very very very wrong.
2007-10-16 02:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Dogma 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes it sounds like it did backfire. but i'm sure you can turn it around. just cast a balance spell and see what happens.
2007-10-16 02:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
i think Its all in your head......just concentrate on being without this person and what you did or will do when your not with this person. i thing about spells is most of it (i mean this in no negative way) is all in your head, if you believe it will happen it will, its kind of a self fulling prophecy and you may not even realize it is.
2007-10-16 02:27:23 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs ACO 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋