I decided to have a one last date with my ex bf tomorrow..I m just feeling scared and nervous about it..cos i really like him and i want to have good memories of him..if i were to get over him is it better to have bad memories of him??..i feel very sad that he cant accept me as the person i am..but im trying not 2 think of that...ive decided not to see him after tomorrow and he also knows it..I need your help in helping me get over him after tomorrow..will not seeing him help?im not sure i can go through with it..my heart feels very painful..Im quite confused if this is what i want..
2007-10-15 18:30:35 · 4 answers · asked by GIna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately, doing the right thing is never an easy thing to do.But that's not the real problem. He does not appreciate who you really are so this relationship is sort of one-sided.I know you care for him but I don't believe he cares for you at the same level.In order for a true relationship to blossom both parties care / love for each other at the same level.If one love someone more than the other than it becomes an obsession and nothing more.I know it's going to be hard, but you can do this and find someone better out there..There's allot of guys out there with out choosing from the wrong side of town..Good luck.
2007-10-15 18:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, Do NOT sleep with him. You will regret that, you will feel cheap and used if he says anything about you leaving him forever or worse "get out". Do not allow a long embrace at the end of the date, that will isinuate desire. And that may come to bite you in the butt. He may use that desire to entice you to come over to "hang out". Last piece of advice is cut the date short, especially if it seems to be heading toward the touchy feely side. If he asks why tell him it's getting to be too much. AND END IT. Good luck hunny. Last and best piece of advice DON'T DO IT ! ! It's an emotional trap and no win situation.
2007-10-15 18:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by BrAnDon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't see him. You are making it harder on yourself by seeing him again and opening up old wounds. Just realise you need to move on with your life and you may as well start as soon as possible. Look forward not back , this person cant accept you for who you are. They are not worth the effort. Its hard to move on but everyday is gets a little easier untill eventually you are healed.
2007-10-15 18:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ MISS YELLOW DIAMOND★☺♀ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is going to be so traumatic then why put yourself through it ---- just call and cancel then you can work through and start again ---- best wishes
2007-10-15 18:36:20 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋