fooling around will he ever see you as girlfriend material or just someone to mess around with?
2007-10-15 18:26:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it was a first date, then i would take you as a girl thats easy to get and would keep doing it to you just to get some action, and get in your pants.. however, he can really like you and have strong feelings for you. So as a girl, i would now play it "hard to get" for now and not do some action for a while until you're sure he's commited =]
2007-10-15 18:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by derik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy, some would say that she's only good for fooling around, but then decent guys would only fool around because she was girlfriend material and he's hoping for a relationship.
2007-10-16 01:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I think both guys and girls have the same rights, I would just be happy to find someone that likes to do what I like to do.
I hate how people don’t say a thing when a guy have sex with many girls, but if a girl has sex with many guys, or even with girls too, then she is a slut and a whore. Give me a break. We are all whores then.
I am now married and very happy with my wife, and we both are proud to say we went out with different people, got to experience many things, and we are happy now together and in love.
A guy that thinks bad of you because you fool around on your first date is an idiot.
2007-10-16 01:34:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you fool around with him on the first date, what do you think? of course he will see you as easy, and that you will do it one the first date with any guy you go out with, do you think he will take you seriously?
Of course there are exceptions, "love at first sight", sometimes you meet someone who seem to be the answer to all your prayers, someone whose soul seem to and your soul are ordained to be together, and in your first date, you discover how much you should have been together and how entirely sure in your heart that your lives will be entwined in eternity, then you fall in love and consumate your love in your passion. Then it is okay, but hey, that probably happens once in a million times.
2007-10-16 01:37:36 · answer #4 · answered by Net Rider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I am not a guy but it depends some guys are turned on but that sort of thing and it's like this girl is not stuck up and she is down for whatever and he may like that in a girl. Other guys however, may look at it as you are just an easy hit and he would never make you his girlfriend. Ask the guy and see. Be honest and upfront.
2007-10-16 01:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking for myself...mess around with. Making out is ok but it's also the way you make out. If theres feeling behind it then she'll feel more like gf material but if it's like crazy drunk chick make out then she'll just be to toy around with because she's either clingy and needy or just toying with me as well.
2007-10-16 01:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he'd see you as someone to mess around with. personally i don't think the movies is a good first date because there is not way to actually get to know each other.
2007-10-16 01:31:13 · answer #7 · answered by =P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i am a lot older i would say that whatever happened on the first date i am looking for a serious relationship and not someone to just "mess around" with ---- enjoy
2007-10-16 01:32:31 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. But usually if the girl shows some restraint and takes it slow, it only increases her respect in the eyes of the guy.
2007-10-16 01:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never on the first date girl! That's bad, dont let your hormones get the best of you. A guy will not take you seriously.
2007-10-16 01:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Yahoo User 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋