ok, so my little borhter (11) and im 13 1/2. Im 2 years older, and were matched in strength. He doesnt respect me or anyone esle in my house, especially me since i tell him to stop being a dick. He doesnt listen to, to turns, reasoning, and even minor threats and violence. I begin with reasoning and end with violence to where we fight till no one wins, and i dont go full on him. if i do, he will go crying to his mom, lie, and get me grounded. Hes a tattle tell, *****, who doesnt reepect me. HOW DO I GTE THE LITTLE FREAK TO RESPECT ME?? DO I BEAT HIM Up?? im not one for violence either, if thats the onlt way, so be it, ill beat him snesneless for a week till he gtes it, but itf theres another way then thats good. whenever i tell my parents he calss me a sissy, and when i dont he gest away with it so parents are a no. HE ALWAYS TALKS DOWN TO ME TOO!! he also punches me and kicks me in the balls, and i call him names for it of course, but he initiates it! HELP!!
2007-10-15 18:00:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Your parents really need to step up to the plate and BE PARENTS, which means they must use every method at their disposal to instill the values in their children that will help them to be successful in life... morals, ethics, responsibility and respect.
If that means instilling respect by means of a well aimed slap on the face or a doubled-up belt across the kids' behinds, then so be it, or take away their computer, I-pod or video game, or ground them. Whatever it takes to get the point across.
They provide for all of their kids' needs, so while they are under their roof, the kids must obey the parents' rules. They must go to school, keep their grades up, do their homework, pick up after themselves and do whatever chores the parents ask of them. If the kids don't comply, the door is that-a-way. Your parents need to handle the brother hard and fast.
About all you can do is talk to your parents and then remove yourself from your brother as much as possible... go to your room, walk around the block, study at a friend's house. Don't let him pull your strings and don't give him whatever response he is looking for.
If he gets into your stuff, you need to either get a keyed lock on your bedroom door, or get one on your closet to turn it into a safe. This is how I survived my teens with my stuff intact.
2007-10-15 18:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, i'm 15 and that i've got a brother who's 2 years youthful than me and that i like him to bits! Your bro feels like a dick. tell your mum and/or dad approximately his. possibly they might kick him out? interior the interim, any time he does something propose, say, "Get a existence!" And each time he calls you a fatty or regardless of, say, "How am I the fat one? i do no longer take a seat around all day taking part in Xbox. you rather need to get out greater." stable luck!
2017-01-03 17:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by stranger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell ur parents whats going on, theyll deal with the little one
2007-10-16 10:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by Fifi Bistro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋