My bf still talks to ex's bro and has him over the house. He is going thru a lot of drama with his ex child support, accusations, order of protection, etc. I think he should just stay away cuz who knows what her bro might go and tell her. He says that they are good friends and he would never do that to him. I think its just disrespectful and her bro calls him his brother in law. I hate it. Granted he doesn't come over all the time maybe once a couple of months. But I feel when you break up with someone you do it with everyone and thats it. I told my bf about it but he doesn't thinks it bad cuz they just have a couple beers and thats it and they don't talk about her.and they were friends before her. But I dont care I hate it and its disrespectfull what do you think??
2007-10-15 17:58:08 · 5 answers · asked by badgirlz106 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
alright, alright, i know i was acting jealous, my bf and I talked it over and FINE!! I am ok with it. We are ok now. Thanks I guess I just needed some people just to slap me in the face and say HELLO GET OVER IT!!
2007-10-16 16:03:31 · update #1
I think you are just jealous and worried that your boyfriend and his friends sister are going to get back together. Look they are friends. You need to learn to trust him. Remember Your friends are first.. You never let them go no matter what.. It is going to take time to learn to deal with you but you will in time.
2007-10-15 18:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by tearzofaprincess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to stop trippin and get over it. Im mean damn you act like he is hanging out with her. If they were friends before her they should be friends after her. If your BF has a kid with this guys sister you might as well get over it, you are going to be seeing alot of them if you plan on being with this guy for a while. Stop being so bitter before you end up losing your man over something soooooooooooo petty. GROW UP!!!
2007-10-16 13:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're making it out to be more than it is, and perhaps you're jealous.If they were friends before, then they should not have to break off their friendship just becuse it didn't work out between the ex and him. I didn't break off frindships with my ex-husbands sister.
2007-10-16 01:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is disrespectful at all, my mother in law's brother and her ex husband (my father in law), were friends for over 40 years. their relationship had nothing to do with my mom in law, they were just good friends.
2007-10-16 01:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by dances with cats 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine, they were bro's before her & they will be after her. You break up with the *****, not the friends you acquired before or during the relationship.
2007-10-16 01:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by iaminterface 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋