Okay so I was talking and my friend suddenly stuck her hand in my face and say ahh ahh ah. Kind of telling me to shut up. Then when im worried about something she's liek stop being so paranoid. Im thinking inside, why dont you STFU. She's nice. She would help me if i had trouble with holding something stuff like that but sometimes shes just plain annoying. She talks about stuff that doesnt make sense. For example, she sometimes would keep talking but then suddenly shes stops like she trying to get a point but dont have one. Do you think it's enough to not like this person or is it just me?
2007-10-15 17:20:16 · 14 answers · asked by Beautiful Glory 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
She lives a block away from me. We would walk to school together. I don't really treat her like a best friend. But she always comes over to watch tv at my home and i dont like it.
2007-10-15 17:32:24 · update #1
If she is annoying you maybe you should spend less time with her. She does sound rude and self centered. Youre free to choose who you spend your time with.
2007-10-15 17:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True you can't like everyone, but it's but it's better to just stay friends, if anything. She probably stuck her hand out was because she was just irritated, like you are. It's okay for even friends to get mad at each other, that's just part of life.
Try to talk to her and if that doesn't work out, then yes, hang out with her less, but try not to end the friendship entirely. You never know what could happen next if you just stayed friends.
2007-10-16 00:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by Robbert J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is okay not to like a person that stuck her hand in your face. This is very rude and shows no respect for your feelings. I would think she doesn't deserve your friendship. If she is annoying and behaves like that, the best thing would be to find another friend.
2007-10-16 01:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice question......... i think to like or dislike this person is all about your decision....... sometimes people just see human beings (specially) from the wrong / negative things that she /he had done...... from your explanation i think you should talk to her, how irritated her habit. maybe she just need someone to criticize her a little, if you kept looking from her bad side only you may as well leave her, but if you think she worth to make friend with you..... hey...... buckle up and tried to talk with her bout her annoying habit.....
good luck with your decision and have a nice day...
2007-10-16 00:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by OLGA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has learned some of this behavior at home probably.
It's just her personality. She seems kind of bossy to me. Type A personality.
if she gets on your nerves, i would hang out with her only when you can tolerate her, like the other person said.
2007-10-16 00:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not obligated to like anyone, and you don't have to justify your feelings to anyone. You are only obligated to be kind and respectful. If you choose to be kind and respectful to this "friend" from a distance, that's okay too. You can pick and choose who you hang out with. No explanations or apologies are necessary, and you shouldn't give any.
2007-10-16 00:29:42 · answer #6 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
life's too short to hang out with people that annoy you!!! I would just slowly start making a gap between us! until you no longer have to worry about it! Sounds like she is really self-conscious and she is trying to make herself look better by making you look like an idiot and you don't need that! so just be nice about it and start making tracks
2007-10-16 00:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by in His image 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is lonely and need to have somebody to talk to.
And she doesn't know who she is, so talks about things that makes no sense.
Do the right thing and take interest in her. Listen to her. Ask questions that will make her talk...then listen.
2007-10-16 01:38:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life...like who you want...why waste your time worrying about someone,who you won't even remember in 5 yr's?? Care about the people that give you caring back...or if she has a emotional problem,talk seriously in private to her....maybe she needs professional help...
2007-10-16 00:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by pedersenkim@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...but she sounds awful!
Sounds like she does not respect you , doesn't care when you have worries and is totally self absorbed!
At least you HAVE a point when you talk.....maybe she's jealous of that - thats why she wants to shut you up!
Sounds like she doesn't know who she is
Do you want someone who just carrys your books?
Or a genuinly 'nice' person?
The word 'nice' does not seem to sum her up i'm afraid!!!
2007-10-16 00:36:16 · answer #10 · answered by chandra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋