My son died at birth and we had him burried in the local grave yard and I see him alot but my life is taking turns I never expected and I have alot of thoughts about leaving the town I am in. Should I feel guilty about leaving where my son is? I know I have to think about my life as it is now but I wouldn't be there to visit him all the time.
2007-10-15 12:39:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I do understand what your are going through because I lost a son at birth too . But I never visit his grave Why ; Because I know its only his who is there His spirit is in heaven and I know hes watching over me Your son want you to be happy .And yes move out where you want and ask your son to help you and he will You and me ours son is a angel LOTS of LUCk
2007-10-15 12:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That burial site is only where your son's remains lie. If you left town, you would not be leaving your son. Your son can be with you wherever you decide to go. His spirit lives on through you. Besides, you can always come back and visit the site whenever you want, I'm sure. Keep his memory alive and you'll never be leaving him.
2007-10-15 19:48:32 · answer #2 · answered by lyona22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since my dad died 4 years ago, I always feel guilty because I haven't visit his grave for 3 years.. the reason is that I had to move far away from my home country, but i'm sure my dad will understand and want the best for my life.. so, u shouldn't feel guilty about that, at least u can visit him sometimes, unlike me ..
i'm sure your son understands.. :)
2007-10-15 19:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by alwaysblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It never goes away.....thinking about your son will always be with you. How long ago did his death take place? They say not to make major moves after such a tragedy....to wait a while before making big decisions. But that's "they". In my opinion it is your life, your son will always be with you....go...go....go..... remember him with joy in your heart.
Laugh, Dance and Giggle,
~~M
2007-10-15 19:52:58 · answer #4 · answered by Molly Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt feel guilty.
ur son is always with you even though ur not at his barrial site.
2007-10-15 19:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by kt--bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋