ive gone over this in my head over and over and i honistly dont see things getting any better im going to a theripest in 2 weeks but i cant see it helping. im not asking this to ask for advice i dont wana hear all this crap about suicide not being the answer the fact of the matter is if after i see counciling i still decide to do this im going to do it i know how to do it i know i can do it....
theres just one problem i want to make this as easy on my parents as posible they are devorced and my mom has told me that she feels i am the only person she can count on. why i plan on doing this is irelivent at this point... i dont want any pitty **** from people or crap like that.
i have a very spacific question and thats all i want answerd how can i make this easier on my parents?
2007-10-15 11:30:52 · 12 answers · asked by matthew m 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
and just to clarify things there is no pain.... its a thought and thats why i know this is going to happen the thought will not go away it will only get worse the more things happen to suport it.
2007-10-15 11:55:03 · update #1
i keep hering things about god my **** of a life is nothing compaird to whats out there if god ever spent even a split second on my life id smack him and tell him to focuse his energy where needed what is it with people and finding hope and happieness in a falls idol volly ball gamedice rob and amy your adivece is well looked at like i said i am going to see a counceler. its not a matter of wanting to do it as much as seeing it beeing the final verdect my mother is the only thing keeping me alive and im concernd that wont last i notice myself caring less and less about that fact each day
2007-10-15 12:15:42 · update #2
By not doing it. There is no easy way. They will see this as THEIR failure, not yours. They will see this as a failure by them as parents. I have 3 daughters and, God forbid, one committed suicide, I would wonder for the rest of my life what I could have or should have done differently. No pity.... Just logic. Consider this: If you committ suicide, you are out of it. You leave everyone you say you care about to pick up the pieces and try to make sense of the senseless and to try to figure out why. And don't think a note will allay their grief or lessen their feeling that the fault lies with them. Think about sticking around and letting them help you.
2007-10-15 11:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by gamedic6304 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. I just lost my best friend on Thursday. I am watching his parent fall apart. Not only will there be this kind of anguish for your parents (for a VERY LONG LONG time) but your parents will spent the rest of their lives trying to understand why you did it. No note or letter that you leave them will EVER answer their questions. And they will also grieve because you didn't come to them before you made this decision.
2007-10-15 11:42:15 · answer #2 · answered by amy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait on this question until you have had MEDICATION and therapy for a while. You will see things differently. You should not wait 2 weeks either. There is no way to make it easier on your parents.
People who think suicides are cowards and selfish are idiots and should regard themselves as such. And in case you care, such remarks do not prevent suicide.
2007-10-15 12:19:55 · answer #3 · answered by Catherine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call 1-800-SUICIDE
trust me your parents would rather see you get better than end your life. i know it's hard for people to understand the personal hell you're going through, but there is hope. current research suggests a combination of drugs and therapy work wonders, even for those with clinical depression.
depression is not a burden to carry alone. you need to reach out. i know you might not feel worthy of it, but deep down you know your mother thinks you are. i dont know you and i think you're worthy of help.
2007-10-15 15:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it dog......its just not worth it.Try others ways to enjoy life.U only got one.U wanna know what hell is like just a bit take a lighter to your arm and let it sizzle for a bit.and if u like the pain then u might like it in hell.some times u just gotta look in the mirror and say"When in Rome"Trust me think this over.Have u Prayed to Baby Jesus???
2007-10-15 12:10:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not live in peace together. Than die together. Bring your parents with you into the after life. Only then will you find true happiness.
2007-10-15 11:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your one selfish bast--d. Devil will be waiting for you. Easy on your parents? Give me a break. Your ruthless and heartless. I only pray these words could change your mind, especially for your parents sake. I also wish you wouldnt do it because I care for you too.
2007-10-15 11:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't. End of story. If you do this, you kill them right along with you. So be a man and face your problems instead of taking the cowardly way out.~
2007-10-15 11:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy way to do this to your parent. there is nothing easy about losing someone you love.
2007-10-15 11:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by ★★pixie★★ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are your parents, ask them. The therapy will help you.
2007-10-15 12:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋