to make a long story short, she got me mad, and i told her stuff basically that she is slut. Then she got really upset and she cried, and now i am soo sad and depressed, i feel very bad and like total POS. i apologized my butt off and i told her the truth that i really didnt anything and i just was mad. She told me its ok, nothing to worry about, thats not what she really means. what should i do?
I swear it was a mistake. i never take my anger to anyone, and this one time i got mad, and I MADE A HUGE MISTAKE. i swear to god in this world it was an honest mistake.
2007-10-15 08:46:58 · 17 answers · asked by who c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sound like you are sorry. And if she accepted you apology then move on and dont feel guilty because its normal to get angry.
2007-10-15 08:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by kingjoker54 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I'm looking past how you made this girl cry... and looking closer at what a great guy you must be to have that sort of feeling. Most guys I know will make fun of a girl and then make fun of her more if she cries. So, really... you're a rarity! Do exactly what you feel is appropriate. Since you are sincerely sorry, why don't you show her how sincerely sorry you are? This means that you find the way that best expresses your sorrow. After all, they're your emotions. Good Luck... and you just made my day.
2016-05-22 19:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, we believe you, it was a mistake. The only thing you can do is tell her how you really feel about her. If you think she's a good person and not a **** than let her know. After that you just have to let it be. Time heals all wounds. Just don't bring it up and be nice to her.
2007-10-15 08:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't feel that your apologies were enough. Send or bring flowers or candy or big teddy bear or whatever would make you feel that the apology is complete. At some point, tho, you have to let yourself off the hook & move on.
2007-10-15 08:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by suzanne g 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a silly present like a very ugly doll, a box of chocs or some flowers won't won't come amiss
2007-10-15 08:52:55 · answer #5 · answered by Scouse 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be that hard on urself if she said that it's fine than just make sure the next time it dosen't happen keep ur anger to urself
2007-10-15 08:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by kajal c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that's not what she means? You apologized, she said she forgives you. If you feel that bad about it, maybe you should take her out to lunch or something.
2007-10-15 08:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Han 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter to her explaining how you feel, words to girls often dont mean much for some reason reding them helps us out, and make her some dinner or something n some roses should get the pt across to her...good luck
2007-10-15 08:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by jae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how calling someone an obscenity is a mistake. unless you have tourettes or something.
don't worry about it, just pull her aside privately and sincerely apologize, and ask her if theres anything you can do
if she says no, then she'll get over it
2007-10-15 08:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hey, if you are really sorry then you wont let it happen again. im sure she feels bad, but show her you really didnt mean it. good luck.
2007-10-15 08:56:38 · answer #10 · answered by <3.love.tennis. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋