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2007-10-15 07:04:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Read books, classics, oprahs book club, Harry Potter whatever. Watch educational programs....point-be eduacated. It widens your vocabulary and perspective.
I had this same problem, so I stopped talking. Its annoying when ppl talk and then when you say something no one cares, its frustrating and rude...so dont allow it, if ppl treat you that way find new ppl to talk to. If you say less, people listen more...dont talk just to talk. If these ppl dont know you well they wont care what you say, so give it time, when ppl know you better they will care more about what you have to say.
Its the same principals as attracting a mate or something, like be mysterious, hold back, dont be desperate....ya know?
There is a book called How to win friends and....I cant remember but its good, Ill let you know when I the book. but the first guy said to listen and thats true, dont worry about ppl listening to you, listen to them, hear what ppl are saying, care, ask questions.
Just dont care, try to relax and enjoy the fact that you have ppl to hang out with. Instead of worrying about what you arent getting, enjoy what you are.
2007-10-15 07:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by MNgirl@thebeach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drew has the right idea, it's a delicate thing, it takes humor and / or knowledge about the subject to be appreicated in a conversation. Don't ever speak unless you know what you are saying is right and it's the right time to say it. NEVER EVER lie to impress, everyone can tell, and when you get called out it'll be the end for you. If you are talking about having a good conversation with a girl, like on a date the rules are completely different. Girls don't care what you have to say, if you are talking to a girl the best thing to do is shut the **** up. Just ask questions and do your best not to seem like you couldn't care less about what their saying while their talking about shoes or their friends or WHATEVER.
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2007-10-15 14:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Nate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Eye contact is key. Finding the right words to express yourself is also helpful.
2007-10-15 14:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Spanish Mami 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to the other people, don't just "wait for your turn to speak" as fight club so eloquently put it. Don't just parrot what other people say, and really listen and try to understand what others are saying.
2007-10-15 14:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen.
look direct to her/his eyes.
if not, she/he will think that you don't like the conversation..
comfort yourself..
you should sit at place where makes you comfort.
i wish you good luck!
(^^)
2007-10-15 14:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by revolcfael-ruof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋