im in the grip of bpd right now, which is a hard illness to live with...im trying to get the right help and treatment right now....the racing thoughts, high panic and anxiety, paranoia are all very dibilitating.
the problem is, i dont want to stay in britain...my ultimate goal really is to leave, build a new life.....most people i talk to here dont seem to support me in this goal or ask me to stay here.......which is not an option for me....i want to leave, move abroad, build a new life......but i feel trapped by my condition and my circumstances.....in a one bedroom apartment, never been employed, having bpd.
im so frustrated because i dont want to be here, im not saying i hate the uk, but i simply want to go away and not return...i want to build a new life..
because no one is supporting me in these hopes i feel people just want me to fail, they want to keep me here....i wasnt even born here.
can anyone help or advise?,
im so miserable..dreaming of a better life
2007-10-15 06:53:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Anything worth doing, is worth doing well. Keep dreaming but realise that you also need to start working to make your dreams a reality, which is not an instaneous process but one that takes time and effort . You're off to a great start by getting help and I've given you practical advice elsewhere on how to emmigrate, so I'll just say try to make the most of what you have now. I know you're struggling and in what you feel is less than an ideal situation, but it will improve if you give it time...
2007-10-15 21:09:56 · answer #1 · answered by Cat S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other people don't want you to fail.You are not trapped in Britain but you feel that way because you are going throgh emotional rollercoaster.If u want to get away,have you thought of a new place?
If u have bpd ,no particular place will have a great impact.Instead,keep taking medicines,find good friends.Believe me,you will make genuine friends.Just look around.
If you really feel there is a place in this world which can really make you feel better,then go ahead,give it a try.good luck!
2007-10-15 07:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by jassymink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get employed. Then, with your own money you can do what you want.What is bpd? If you are not able to work, you probably should stay where your treatment is. Talk to the doctor about the anxiety. There is medication. Life will get better. Hang in there.
2007-10-15 07:04:19 · answer #3 · answered by Harley Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,i have some very huge advice -- stop depending on other people to fix you.
other people are not going to ask you to stay if you have made a decision to leave.. i wouldn't... the choice is yours alone.
a therapist might be of great help. they can help us with direction, to see what we need to work on in order to feel better.
it's nice to dream of a better life, but dreaming alone won't change things. we have to make the effort in order to attain our goals. they just don't fall from the sky.
ir you do not want to stay in Britain, then put forth the work it takes to move on. and i hope you will.
also, please refer to your other post. i've listed forums and websites on BPD. you will find better help and information there, than on yahoo answers, i'm sure of it.
2007-10-15 07:03:39 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you going to get the health benefit you receive now in another country ?
2007-10-15 07:00:14 · answer #5 · answered by OCSreject 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋