i met this guy thru a friend and liked him a lot. after that we have been talking online but its been strictly friendly not flirty or anything. generally guys strt the flirting bit and i just go along, but he dsnt seem to be making an effort to flirt..lol. except once i called a dog cute and he said sumthing like he'd b happier if i had called him cute.. wud that be flirting? so can u plz suggest some ways to flirt with him online since i dont realy meet him and i dont wanna straight away ask him out, had a bad experience so abstain from doing tht!
thanks in advance!
2007-10-15 06:44:23 · 2 answers · asked by cranberries 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i knw i missed tht moment so i tried calling him cute again. how can i flirt with him then??
2007-10-15 06:50:33 · update #1
You probably (in all likelihood) blew it with the cute dog comment. Now he thinks you're gonna think he's a dog unless you start the flirting. If you keep things in the "friends" mode too long, you'll end up with a friend for life and never get past that. He also senses your being hurt once (maybe) and doesn't want to come on too strong. You're in a hard place with this one. The more I think about, the more I think it's probably too late for this one to work. You should stop all contact with him and see if he starts to pursue you on his own. If that happens, you have all the signs to start fresh with the flirting. If he doesn't contact you, move on...there's nothing there.
2007-10-15 06:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to that guy, you didn't blow it. here's what you do:
you: hi
guy:hey
you: how's it goin, whatcha up 2
guy: nm, work blah blah... who cares, and yourself?
you: I'm good, I just went shopping and picked out the cuteist outfit
guy: yeah, whats it like (at this point the guy could care less about the outfit)
you: well it's a little hard to describe, it's kinda revealing (even if it's not), I guess you'll just have to see it.
at this point he'll pretty much lose most of his fine motor skills and probably start to druel... a lot. You'll catch him completely off guard and that should not only get the ball rooling but give you the upper hand. Feel free to substuite outfit with anything else.
if he says anything other than that sounds good, yeah for sure, when, or something along those lines, he just wants to be friends and you need to back off and let him make the next move.
2007-10-15 14:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋