Don't they realize that all I want is just to have a good drink and chat with those people & meet some women? Then why do they mock me and treat me as an outcast? All I want is to make friends with them & they respond like I am not fit to live in this world.
2007-10-15 06:39:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I don't care if one or two a$$holes do that to me...but this happens everytime & with almost everyone in the bar and I can't stand it anymore
2007-10-15 06:40:44 · update #1
Simply because you are different. Accept it and you'll not even notice those humpers judging you. From your name, I'm assuming your muslim. Eid Mubarak
2007-10-15 07:25:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you wear something that is out of the ordinary? Sometimes people are uncomfortable around people that are dressed or have different hair styles, makeup, etc. and to make up for that they joke. The unfortunate thing is that it hurts the one being made fun of. If this isn't the case then I'd say to opt for another bar, who wants to be around idiots like that anyway. Especially if you can go elsewhere and enjoy an evening out without ridicule. Stay away from jerks that treat you like an outcast. There are a lot of nice people in this world. Best to you.
2007-10-15 13:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by ishowtt4beads 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You might need to work on your approach, if it's the people you approach that treat you this way. I recommend watching "The Pick Up Artist."
Mystery, the guy who does the show, had a really hard time picking up women. Then he studied people who are successful at it, and figured out a formula. It really works. Give it a try, and good luck! You are a fantastic, amazing person, these people just don't know it yet. Speaking to women is not easy, they really are much different from us, you just need to find the right way. Check out the show on VHF1, or check out some of his books. Use both if you can. On the show, you can see the techniques in action. They do really work!
2007-10-15 13:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not the going to a bar type but I get that kinda treatment from girls all the time. My husband says it's because I'm so beautiful they're just jealous but I think he's rather bias. Don't let other people's problems be yours. I had to learn that or it would have driven me crazy. Try going other places besides bars to meet girls and make friends. Good Luck ;)
2007-10-15 13:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by grace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have a hillbilly bar here where we live as well, you walk in and they talk about every one, just go somewhere else! Make sure you don't have any boogers hanging, or a kick me sign on your back and you should be o k !!
2007-10-15 13:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a good looking guy, there just trying to make you feel like there something wrong with you. It's the old jealous crap, just ignore them there just acting stupid. Have your good time and forget about them.
2007-10-15 13:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by rock of ages 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe because most of what you really believe is going on is just in your head. the world is not out to get you. therapy might help you to realize some of the cognitive techniques to help you overcome your thinking errors.
2007-10-15 13:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by plastik punk -Bottom Contributor 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should find a different bar.
2007-10-15 13:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Figment 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them and have a good time
2007-10-15 13:45:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would find another bar where people are nicer.
2007-10-15 13:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by Choqs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋