After a 5year relationship living with my boyfriend i am totally confused and feeling very down. He won't marry me(has said), isn't happy and wants to move back north to his home. sometimes he contradicts himself by saying the opposite.He won't compromise at all. I found him texting other women dodgy txt stuff a while back and using datelines. I felt betrayed and hurt.He felt justified in what he did and he never really thought anything was wrong with that, its not cheating to him. We have argued and i have ended up being pushed over.He has lashed out twice in frustration, in one i ended up with a burst eardrum as he slapped me across the ear.Although these things are in frustration i feel disappointed with him.I have not been the most trusting of him but i now believe trust is earned in part. A few months ago one of my closest friends commited suicide and it really hit me. He has shown no real interest. If i interrupt the tv/dvd to talk to him he gets annoyed. Whats wrong with him?
2007-10-15
05:25:21
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I didn't trust him enough at the start which is partially why he is like this now.I don't enjoy sex with him now as im worried about why he says the things he does. So its avoided which frustrates him but i don't feel 100% comfortable with it as he dosn't talk. He thought nothing of going home to scotland for a week after an argument and ignoring me totally. But a lot of the time he is a kind loving man so i feel great. Our friends find him a nice person- i wish they could see what he says/does sometimes. I am a succesful woman with a career and ambition and i like myself. I don't want to make a huge mistake by leaving him, but im starting to wonder if all men are like this.
2007-10-15
05:49:24 ·
update #1