We have been together since 1999 I have proposed before but she wanted to get finacial obligations done first so we just stayed engeged with no date or responce for dated of marriage She now wants to just live together and just be friends we have 1 son and she has 2 other kids I have always confessed my Love for her this entire relationship so she knows how deep I feel for her I have went above and beyond to show her how much I love her We have problems concerning sex because she never wants it She says she is going through some mentall issues and I dont understand so in order for things to be happy just be roomates so she will not feel obligated for any discussioins on sex or where she go if she go somewhere or whatever she does she doesn't have to answer to anyone but she also stated that it is not about meeting another person that is the last thing on her mind right now she just wanna be free The apartment is in my name and she just wanna be roomate I love her should I just chill ?
2007-10-15 05:19:21 · 2 answers · asked by Nice guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want a husband-wife relationship in your life you arent going to get it from her. I dont know who pays the bills in this situation but if it is you then she is using you to live off of. She does not love you. So you have to decide if youre willing to live without her loving you and hope she doesnt eventually leave you for someone else or if you want a real relationship with a woman and split up with her so you can find that. As long as youre with her you will never be loved.
Youve wasted 8 years with her and its unlikely to improve.
Its your choice how you want to live.
2007-10-15 06:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh oh! She has found a new squeeze and is ready to move on; you should probably do the same.
2007-10-15 05:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋