Why don't girls realize that turning them on is one of the biggest turn ons for guys(or at least for me)? Whenever I'm with a girl she seems to wonder why I like doing(physical) stuff for her just as much (if not MORE) than having her do stuff for me. seeing that I can drive her crazy is honestly an AMAZING feeling, but for some reason girls don't seem to get this most of the time.
2007-10-15 05:19:03 · 37 answers · asked by Falstune 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow where do you live? I need to set you up with my best friend!
2007-10-15 05:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by teresa m 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought we did realise that.... I know I do. Cos i prefer doing stuff to my bf for the same reason. Maybe the girls you've been with haven't been in long term relationships or slept with many guys so they're abit clueless lol. Or maybe they think you don't like the things they do to you because you're so keen on pleasuring them. That would freak a girl out abit. Maybe they think they're not good at it or you're not into it?
2007-10-15 05:28:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you're so sweet. It's not everyday that I hear a guy say these things.
Well probably, it's because girls feel that way, too (or at least for me, haha!!) I like taking care of my man. I like doing stuff for him than he doing stuff for me (lol, I'm copying yours). It makes me feel heaven when he gives me that smile of appreciation. Just the thought that I made him feel taken care of (like preparing food for him, choosing a tie for him) really makes my day. I just can't help but be like that. You're absolutely right. It is an AMAZING feeling.
2007-10-15 05:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Nia F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with them about it. Some girls think that doing "strange" things make them seem slutty to their boyfriends, but as long as a guy is honest about what he likes and doesn't like, the girl should feel open enough to do the same. I'm a happily married woman, and I do tell my husband what I like. Explain how making them happy makes YOU feel.
2007-10-15 05:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by dianak502002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turning girls on doesn't have to be physical all the time.
Lots of the time it's just doing something sweet.
or even saying something sweet.
If you want to be more physical, just gently stroke a sensitive area (arm, thigh) or if you're both into it, the pubic area.
Talking dirty is also a good option, just know your boundaries.
2007-10-15 05:23:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My last BF was selfish but my Current BF is always wanting to please me before himself!!
It was only since we started going that i realised what drives him crazy and its when I really want it because of what he has done or said. He always says no which really gets me even more!!!
But not all the time will that work!!!
Love the question, but not all guys are like you!!!
2007-10-15 05:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by Lovelife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably experience. A lot of guys are more interested in their own pleasure than the girl's. That's just my guess, though.
2007-10-15 05:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by usha10777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We get it...we just like doing the same thing so were trying to get the guys going.....it drives us crazy also to know that were taking care of our men!!...hahah.
2007-10-15 05:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by qtpy2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're dealing with younger inexperienced girls....us women in our late 20's expect that. lol my bf has become lazy so we have "the talk" once a month about his lack of foreplay. *sigh* enjoy your libido while you still can...girls hit there sexual prime late 20's early 30's just when guys sexuality start dying off.
2007-10-15 05:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hey U, Yeah U..Get over here 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That`s what happens to me when i see a man getting turned on by what i`m doing to them.
I like to do fore play on them until they beg me to have sex with them , so i also know that is what men like doing to me!
When i say men i do mean one at a time!!!!!!!!!
Barmchicka has it right it`s us women in our late twenties that understand this concept!
2007-10-15 05:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by mistress midnight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn i wish a guy would go out of his way to turn me on lol. Maybe your just with the wrong girls lol. just joking maybe the girls whom you are with just don't want to be arroused forcefully and want to experiece on their own time
2007-10-15 05:22:49 · answer #11 · answered by moringurl20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋