2007-10-15 04:31:03 · 43 answers · asked by Alicia C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've got female friends that I don't doink....just because they're the opposite sex doesn't mean you can't have a non sexual friendship. But you are rather vague with the details....did he or she look sheepish....was he even there, did he tell you who she was, Was she a Jehovah's witness condemning you to their pixie devils for getting it on with a lamppost or whatever they believe in etc.
2007-10-15 04:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Arther 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not break up with him ,the girl might be a neighbour, sister,friend,or to help even you. Find out first, and think,decide and take a necessary action that suits the appearance of the girl. Be very rational.
2007-10-15 04:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by osi kwa stat nig afr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she there for any other reason than to just see your boyfriend?
Did he try to explain to you the situation?
We as girls always know the truth even if we hide it from ourselves. If you truly feel that he has something going on with someone else at the same time that he's supposed to be dating you then you should definitely not waste your time.
Boys come and go and life is all about enjoying yourself.
p.s. you sound young, I hope your not engaging in sexual intercourse. If you are, I hope you're being responsible with it. Use protection. Not saying this applies to you, but if a guy or girl is going to be messing around with several people then you're at a very high risk of catching some kind of STD.
2007-10-15 04:35:31 · answer #3 · answered by laurel 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Not just because another girl showed up on his doorstep. He doesn't have control over that. You have some trust issues in your relationship, though, and if you're that freaked over the mere presence of another girl, you really ought to evaluate how worthwhile this guy is to you. Is he a player or are you being jealous and possessive?
2007-10-15 04:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by lotsayorks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, she could be coming by for a number of reasons other than what you may be thinking. But I would ask one of my male friends to drop by the next time you know your boyfriend is going to be at your place just so he would know the feeling.
2007-10-15 04:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Un-couth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats called jumping to conclusions..just cuz he is in a relationship does not mean he cant be friends with other girls. just ask who she is and how does he kno her maybe the three of u can hangout and be chill with each other.. dont always assume juss cuz hes friends with another girl that he is cheating..its not fair to him..at least she came over when u were there and not when u werent..most guys if they are cheating are not goin to invite their girl over and his whore at the same time..
2007-10-15 04:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by PhotographyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better have a better reason than just a member of the opposite gender entering his house.( Sounds like you have a real torrid relationship going on.)
2007-10-15 04:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More info? Did she just come to the door and ask for him? Did you ask her who she was? Did you ask him about it? Whether or not you break up with him depends on a lot of details you haven't given... but the obvious answer is, if he's messing around with some other girl, then "YES!" you should break up with him. I hope things go well for you.
2007-10-15 04:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You didn't give enough information for us to advise you on that. Should you break up simply because another female showed up at his house? No.
Why was here there? That may or may not be a deal breaking reason.
2007-10-15 04:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but there needs to be more information.Hard to answer this question with not knowing why she came .
How long she stayed.
How they acted together.
OR if you were ignored wow she was there.We need more info
2007-10-15 04:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by fireflies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋