If you could change one thing about yout significant other, what would it be?
2007-10-15 04:04:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Do her scoliosis (curved spine) and dodgy knee count as two separate things..... or could I group it together under "physical medical ailments"?
I'd sooner both be fixed, but if only one then it'd have to be her spine. That seems to cause her more pain.
2007-10-15 04:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lucid Interrogator 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't change anything.I would pray for guidance as to what I could do differently to make the relationship better.
Matthew 7:4 "Or how can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' and behold, the log is in your own eye?
7:1-6 We must judge ourselves, and judge of our own acts, but not make our word a law to everybody. We must not judge rashly, nor pass judgment upon our brother without any ground. We must not make the worst of people. Here is a just reproof to those who quarrel with their brethren for small faults, while they allow themselves in greater ones. Some sins are as motes, while others are as beams; some as a gnat, others as a camel. Not that there is any sin little; if it be a mote, or splinter, it is in the eye; if a gnat, it is in the throat; both are painful and dangerous, and we cannot be easy or well till they are got out. That which charity teaches us to call but a splinter in our brother's eye, true repentance and godly sorrow will teach us to call a beam in our own. It is as strange that a man can be in a sinful, miserable condition, and not be aware of it, as that a man should have a beam in his eye, and not consider it; but the god of this world blinds their minds. Here is a good rule for reprovers; first reform thyself.
http://bible.cc/matthew/7-5.htm
2007-10-15 15:19:02 · answer #2 · answered by shellyangelwolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard question because I love him for who he is no matter his faults.
I think I'd change his propensity for playing with swords. He has about 6 of them because he just loves swords and always have. I'd actually like to start buying REAL from ancient times, like the gladius, for his hobby.
I just wish he'd stop playing with them when he doesn't know what he's doing. He keeps doing stupid things like slicing his finger. Not bad, but enough that it freaks me out.
One day he's going to really hurt himself if he doesn't quit.
Though he has gotten better about not playing with them than he used to be.
2007-10-15 11:15:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd make her Breasts smaller.
They pain her lower back.
Looking at getting a reduction in the (hopefully) not to distant future but she worries about having a lack of feeling after an operation.
Its her body and her choice in the end.
2007-10-15 11:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would any one want to change some one they love aren't you with them because you loved the way they were.there is no if buts or may be's if you answer this question that means your not happy and i think most of you are
2007-10-15 14:24:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd give him whatever he needed to make his dream of being a rock star come true. He's an amazing guitarist, but he has this feeling that he'll never make anything out of it because his time has passed. I would want to give him the spark back.
2007-10-15 11:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Nothing.
Why would I want to change people? Besides, why mess with perfection?
2007-10-15 11:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His apparent inability to put dirty socks in the laundry basket.
It upsets me, possibly unreasonably so, but they smell.
2007-10-15 11:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by HP 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, thats why he's my significant other
2007-10-15 11:13:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that he's not very punctual.
i've been waiting for him for about 18 years now. the wan ker.
2007-10-15 11:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Phadria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋