Alright, so here's the thing....my husband and I want to have a baby. Although there's one problem that's been going on lately, he's been unable to "finish" when we do it, but can easily "finish" with BJ. My question is this:
If it gets on my hand during BJ, if I somehow got it inside me, could I get pregnant that way? OR does the stuff "die" when it hits air, as I've heard before? Thanks!!!
2007-10-15 03:18:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sperm can stay alive outside the body for a period of time as long as it remains moist. However, once the semen dries or is wiped up, the sperm are not likely viable any longer. While in theory, it is possible sperm on a finger placed inside a vagina could result in pregnancy, it is not very likely. The ejaculation releases the sperm with enough force to help them on their way through the vaginal opening into the vagina and through the cervix on their quest to find the fallopian tubes and the egg on it's own journey to the uterus. The sheer quantity of semen released during ejaculation makes it more likely a sperm will find the egg. The small amount of semen you can manage to get on a finger tip may hold the right sperm to get the job done, but it is a long shot. Sperm do not die when they hit the air, but will die when the semen dries. ADDED: Your husband's inability to come to orgasm during sexual intercourse could be a result of too much pressure for him to perform. It can be quite stressful knowing that whether your wife gets pregnant or not depends on how well you do sexually. If it continues, you may need to take the TTC out of sex for awhile and just enjoy it for it's pleasure purpose. If you aren't trying to get pregnant on purpose, it may just happen by accident.
2007-10-15 03:32:07 · answer #1 · answered by sevenofus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
sperm that alive on the outside of your vagina can travel inside and get you pregnant. its a slim chance, but better then none.
I also agree with the baster idea. Maybe, if he wears a condom during a BJ, it might be easier...Weird, but if you have no other choice...
I think the more important question would be the one addressing why your man cant *** inside you. Try talking to him if you havent. Maybe there is something on his mind... like he is scared to have a baby.
2007-10-15 04:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by white_goth_11 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
try different positions, my man finishes as he puts it "better" in the "doggy style" position, but he may be stressed and this might sound a little rude but it could be true he may just be bored of the sex life...
good luck
and
**baby dust**
2007-10-15 03:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Day Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't die when it hits the air - try you hand with a condom and them use something to insert it, like a chicken baster - Good luck.
2007-10-15 03:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Jackie M 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
possible but very difficult is depends on his mobility. you may need to find a MD to help him get over his problem maybe you can get him right there insert
2007-10-15 03:45:37 · answer #5 · answered by Big Daddy R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋