my hubby got killed in my dream?

Question

he is deployed right now in iraq. and i keep having this re-occuring dream that he gets killed by a bomb. i have told him of this dream and that it keeps repeating but he tells me that he will come home safe and sound but this dream is makeing me not belive him. ive heard that dreams that repeat over and over come out to be true.

Answer 1

It's just your brains way of coping with the stress and worry you are feeling for your man. It does not mean it will happen, really......

Answer 2

It is reasonable for you to have fears that your hubby might not make it home alive, you know that your husband is in a dangerous situation, and it is a possibility. You see the war on the news every night, with scenarios such as crazy suicide bombers driving into groups of people and such. The dream is repeating for you, because this is an issue that weighs on you very much, and the dreams will stop as soon as the issue is resolved, or you come to a point where you can be more at peace with it, recurring dreams are about problems that need resolution, so they get presented over and over again until resolution is found. If a dream is recurring, it does not mean that it's prophetic. If that were true, then everyone who ever had recurring dreams about thier teeth falling out would be walking around with no teeth at all, and that would amount to a whole lot of gummy people walking around! (as in just about everybody, it's a very common dream) As we get older, women often mentally "rehearse" the time when our spouse will die, as we age, and observe the spouse aging as well, because most women far out live our spouses. It is a way of coming to grips with the possibility of such a thing happening. You are not doing this because you are getting old, of course, but your husband is in a dangerous situation, and I think in your dreams you are "rehearsing" the "what if" scenario, and trying to brace yourself for it. Try to keep the faith that your husband will be ok, I'm sure he is probably worried about you being so worried about him, it's natural for you to be afraid for him, but don't take this as a prophetic dream, just as a rehearsal for a possibility that may never happen. Do try to keep busy in the meantime, maybe you can get involved in something like working with a group making care packages for the guys, and things like that. I agree with Gladiater that it might help you to spend several minutes a day visualizing a peaceful outcome, and focus your energies on his homecoming instead. Another visualization that may help is if you visualize a white light entering the top of your head, filling you, then concentrating it at your heart, send it in a stream from your heart to your husband, and see it surrounding him in a bubble of protection, perhaps it will help your point of view to see yourself as an active participant in sending protective energy to him, as part of the problem for you is that he is so far away, and you feel helpless to do anything about it.....Good luck, and may the Gods watch over your hubby, and bring him home safely to you..... You question has stayed with me since I answered it, I have lit a candle for you and your husband, for him to be protected, and for you to find more peace while he is gone....

Answer 3

A lot of times your dreams are a play off of your emotions around the time you are having them. If you are AFRAID that your hubby is going to get killed in Iraq, then it is possible that your subconcious is storing those fears in your mind, and they turn into dreams, or nightmares...however you look at it.

Don't worry so much in your wake life. I know it is difficult to do, especially when you care for him so much. But constant worrying can make you sick mentally and physically. So try and stay calm.

Good luck sweetie and I hope you find peace in your dreams :)

Answer 4

Sometimes dreams can be warnings of possibilities. You need to concentrate on directing those possibilities to a safe return. By visualizing, or as it is called prayer, you can change possibilities that you have in a dream to a positive outcome.. Imagine him walking through that door, open arms giving you a big hug and kiss. Do it on a regular basis and don't dwell on the negativity of the dream.

Your energy can cause a warning in this dream to change course. Too bad our war criminal President won't change course..

I wish you and him the best.

Answer 5

You are simply reviewing your fears for your husband. If it is reoccurring, you must have a lot of anxiety about it. Try to stop dwelling on it so much, although I understand it is difficult not to, dwelling on it only causes you needless anxiety. In your dreams start trying to make them so that he overcomes the threat and is successful in surviving it.
May he come home safe and sound, and may peace be with you. Good luck.

Answer 6

This dream simply means that you are worried to loose him! you are missing him dearly. Pray for him everynight and tell him to make sure that he lets you know he is fine when he gets the chance! your stressing to much about him being over in Iraq, All these news about our soldiers dieing is scary and puts you in that position

Answer 7

im sure you husband will be absoultely fine, a friend of mine is away in iraq too, but theyll be fine, scienists however do believe that one in ten comes true, but we also play a part in it as well i.e. dream that youll that oull have a another baby in the next 18 months, hench sub conicuously you practice more and sub consiuously want to have a baby get what i mean, even if you dont actively particapte u may be sub coniuosly thinking.
But i hope your husbands and gets home safe which im sure he will xxxx