I have been really jealous of my boyfriend's past relationships. One girl he told me was obsessed with and he spent over $400 on her for prom. He told me it was nothing at all, and he only had a crush on her, but she never dated him. He said he thought she was kinda pretty, but she and I didn't even compare. That he had low standards and he thought she was the best that he could ever do. He said he thought that I was out of his league. He said that he thought she was "average," and that looks were never that important to him, but he also told me he just wanted to get into someone's pants and it didn't matter who. He never did get in her pants or anything, he said at the time he wanted to. He was kinda a dork in high school so no girls ever liked him, and she was nice to him, but toyed with him it sounded like. He said that one of his friends called her fugly. He told me that it was lust, and that he really doesn't think she's pretty at all. What do you think it honestly was?
2007-10-14 20:40:25 · 5 answers · asked by Consultant 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
With me, he said that he always thought I was really beautiful but way out of his league and he told me that I looked better than her then the night he took her to prom. When he and I first started dating, and she randomly called, he told her that I was the most gorgeous girl he has ever known. He always told me that looks were never THAT important to him because he knew he wasn't super good looking. Do you think he truly thought she was gorgeous even though he told me she was nothing special at all? What did he mean by kinda pretty?
2007-10-14 20:41:04 · update #1
Wow... your immaturity surpasses reason!
Why do you care about his past???
If you really care then you obviously arent mature enough for a relationship.
Grow up a little.
2007-10-14 20:46:14 · answer #1 · answered by Leizl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is trying not to make you insecure. Why do you worry about his past. We all have a past. Just accept that he is with you now and that he thinks that you are beautiful. Do not compare yourself to her or to anyone else. If he said that it was lust then yes he was attracted to her. He is contradicting himself. Let it go and just worry about the here and now.
2007-10-15 03:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really, really, really doesn't matter. You have him now. Please don't be one of those females who obsess about everything a guy says, who has to dissect what he might mean. Those are the types of girls that eventually drive the guy nuts and away.
2007-10-15 08:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by Lady G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it was in the past and therefore not relevant. You sound very insecure.
2007-10-15 04:09:17 · answer #4 · answered by LillyB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SORRY QUESTION TOO LONG . GOOD LUCK.
2007-10-15 03:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by 10-T3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋