I married my school sweet heart he was so sweet I felt like I was the most luckiest girl in the world.I felt like a queen he pay for eveything ten white horse, beautiful dove flying as we walk out the church my wedding dress oh my goodness when i see our cake it was so beautiful we dance the night away on his yacet. this was a dream come true and the next day we went to paris.our honeymoon I could not believe it.I say to my self with tear in my eyes is this a gream to me he is so handsome but my joy turn to fear everything was find until we return home he bought me beautiful a home a car everything was paid for..and three week later he begain to slap me around kick me I ask my self what did I do wrong I love him if I look at another man he slap me, and he scream at me I can't talk to him if i ask him are tell him something he get mad over nothing. now two year has pass we have twin boy and i dont wont our son to be like ther father what should i do?I love him so
2007-10-14 19:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If he's beating you, you need to leave the relationship. Take your boys, file for a restraining order, and get a divorce.
If you need more help call 1-800-799-SAFE.
2007-10-14 19:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Meredith 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you cant sit down and talk without getting a good hiding, he is most probably one of those men who would not hit a man But my advice to you is take your boys and leave but make arrangements first with someone you can stay with and trust so as not to give him for warning .
Now don't matter how much he sweet talks you to go back don't be fooled he will kill you with his temper
,worst comes to the worst get a restraining order to keep him away and contacting you Hope this helps Good luck
2007-10-14 21:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, love doesn't cut it. You and your children are in danger, possibly for your lives. He is abusing you, and will most likely abuse your children. It won't go away and it won't get any better.
If you're in the US (hard to tell because of some of your sentence structure), call the police every time he hits you. He will be arrested for domestic violence. GET OUT! Get a restraining order (and eforce it - don't let him come back), and a good divorce lawyer, and get counseling for your boys. (If you don't have money he can be ordered to pay your lawyer fees).
Don't stay because of money - THIS is what our welfare system is supposed to do - help people get their lives back together!
2007-10-15 08:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Asked and Answered 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Staying in an abusive relationship is teaching your children that it is okay to abuse your spouse. You are just as much at fault for staying in that situation with your babies as your husband is for beating you. It is a mothers job to protect her babies. Why do you love a man who beats you? You must have a very low self esteem which isn't a good example to your boys either.
If I were you I would pack up my kids and move in with my family where it is safe.
2007-10-14 19:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by katiebug 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He bought you and showed you a fairy tale, and he LIED. This reminds me of a Mary Higgins Clark book that I read many many years ago, where everything was too good to be true and...well lets just say that it didn't end well. My dear, you need to get out of there, and move far far away, and probably need to get a restraining order, as well as custody of your child(ren?).
Please get out of there asap. He is abusive and you don't deserve that.
2007-10-14 19:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Freke 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well thanks for the points... I read all your other questions, if this was a serious question I would consider answering it seriously. Go look at this persons other questions.
2007-10-14 20:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by yungin4lyfe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just divorce him and go on with your life on your own!
2007-10-14 21:10:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call a shelter & set up a plan to escape
2007-10-14 19:38:41 · answer #8 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This all depends on what country you are in. Where do you live?
2007-10-14 19:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Pack your things and leave.
2007-10-14 19:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by MHnurseC 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋