She is 35 and gave me her number last Friday, she came over on Thursday and nothing happened between us. I was thinking about making a move on her, but I didn't get the right vibe. We were talking about porn and wet dreams she has had, but we weren't talking about it for that long. Was that a sign that she likes me? She seems very friendly, so that leads me to belive she wants me. What 35 year old woman gives a 22 her number? after only knowing her for a week?
2007-10-14 18:10:33 · 17 answers · asked by devil boy 61 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Porn and wet dreams on the first date?? What more do you want a written invitiation?? She was looking to get all animal nasty with you and you balked??
Dude!! 35 year old women are hitting their sex prime she was about to teach you things your next 5 girlfriends would have thanked her for!!!
Do not look for anything serious with her, she justs wants to have fun with you. You just enjoy the ride while it lasts. if you did not blow it already. life is about seizing oppourunities when they are there it may not present itself again. she may have mentally written you off as nice guy but not very savvy in the bed
2007-10-14 18:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by froggy_logic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, what have you got to lose? Not like she's your mother or anything. Make sure you wear a condom. Speaking about porn and wet dreams shows that she's mature and can talk about stuff like that. I don't think this means she 'wants' you, but it's promising.
Regards,
Brandon
2007-10-15 01:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by El BrandO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted you to make a move on her, she would be disappointed, but . . . don't think of it in such black and white terms like "strike out". If she's mature, she'll give you another chance.
Actually, women get a charge out of being teased, a lot more than men do (us guys just want to cut to the chase) . . . so if you're really interested in her, flirt with her like crazy, but don't do anything, until she finally jumps you :-)
2007-10-15 01:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by Snack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....society has it such that now ppl dont even bat a goddamn eyelid when we see 45 yr old men with 22 yr old girls so.....morally nothing wrong i guess. But it really depends if ur goin for a long term relationship or....er....a one night out thing cause if its the latter..heh go for it man she started the topic so its up to u to follow up!
2007-10-15 01:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you missed the bus. She was willing to give you a free ride and you missed it. But chances are if she visited you after having only known you for a week , you'll have another chance at it. Be patient and you'll get your chance at it.
2007-10-15 01:15:36 · answer #5 · answered by that hot chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see her, make your move, but after some good conversation of course. My experience has been that mature women tend to like to cut through b.s.
2007-10-15 01:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by SoulDawg 4 UGA 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a number. Kiss her and see what happens.
2007-10-15 01:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine that there would be a better conversation that would be a better indicator that she interested in more than just sitting on the sofa...
2007-10-15 01:14:06 · answer #8 · answered by WingNo19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suspect when she told you about her dream you should have asked how she was feeling at that point.
you want to find something to compliment her on. i suspect it would not be very long before you would be in the saddle.
2007-10-15 01:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by ramni222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to have a very sociable flirtatious friend that would do stuff like that. she just likes to socialize and have alot going on with people.
2007-10-15 01:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋