So last night I told my boyfriend that I wanted to you know.. and he told no.... that he wansnt in the mood... we dotn get the chance to a lot because he works during the week and I dont get to see him... Why would he tell me no?
2007-10-14 17:59:03 · 15 answers · asked by Lostandconfussed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well there could be a few reasons...He could have had a hard day at work and stress or being tired tends to make things not work...
You may want to ask him whats been going on in his day to day and be there for him and you may find the answer you seek.
2007-10-14 18:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It don't mean he's cheating! I'd be honest i cheated in the past and that don't mean i would turn down my main girl for "you know what" ! He has been stressed and tired from working right? I still have the energy! He may need to eat healthier or take vitamins or something!
2007-10-15 01:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it, it could go two ways. He could be stressed out from work or he might not be that into you anymore. Have you been getting any other weird vibes from him? I suggest talking to him about it in a nonconfrontational way. Who knows what may have happened earlier in the day.
2007-10-15 01:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by sunshine1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, believe it or not, sometimes, yes sometimes guys don't feel like doing it. You need to talk it out with him and ask him about why he didn't want to, in a loving way. He may be concerned about getting you pregnant or doing something wrong. The fact of the matter is, is that you need to find out why....don't HOUND him, just ask him...maybe he's stressed out and it causes him to lose his mojo.
2007-10-15 01:03:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did that once just for the heck of it. I wanted to see what it was like to reject a girl seeing as how they seem to enjoy having the upper hand in the sex department. I hated it. He was probably not feeling well or he was running a test. he probably won't do it again.
2007-10-15 01:04:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
have YOU ever not been in the mood to do something? how would you feel if he got upset with you if you weren't in the mood to mess around?
if he's never given you a reason not to trust him before, then don't worry. if this becomes a recurring thing, then talk to him about it.
2007-10-15 01:05:33 · answer #6 · answered by lilmamaOH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps his work is getting in between of..you know..he might be just a little stressed.
May I suggest you taking him on a romantic weekend? Perhaps in a romantic inn?
2007-10-15 01:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was stressed and not in the mood. It's rare but sometimes guys aren't in the mood for sex.
2007-10-15 01:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he could have been tired from a long day at work or maybe he wants to save it for a special occasion
2007-10-15 01:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by slowguy521 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you, or would you explain yourself everytime you didn't feel like it? Males and females aren't all that different, sometimes all a guy wants is a hug too.
2007-10-15 01:07:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋