An acquaintance from my "Mom's Club" is having a birthday party for her 2 year old daughter but we will be out of town. Is it proper etiquette to still get a gift?
2007-10-14 17:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by roxieroco 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I would get a gift, but it doesn't have to be elaborate. A $5 book in a cute bag would be enough, and thoughtful. I personally think if someone invited you, it's polite to get a gift even if you can't go.
2007-10-14 17:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by michelcreek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a two year old? No, you don't have to get a gift, and I wouldn't feel obligated to either. This woman is an acquaintance, and her child won't be able to connect the gift to you or your child, so the gift would be one more thing to add to her collection of stuff. What's the meaning in that? Unless you are attending the party, forget the gift. Take the money and buy your own kid a gift. Or you can buy me one.
2007-10-14 17:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was a close friend I would say get a gift but since it is only an acquaintance I don't think you should feel obligated. If you are feeling bad then get a gift or even just a birthday card and give it to them when you see them.
2007-10-14 17:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by ajmommy002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this person is just an acquaintance, not a good friend, and it is a 2-yr-old, I don't think it's necessary to get a gift if you don't go to the party. HOwever, if you think you may feel awkard if you see this person on a regular basis,you may wish to get a gift and give it to her next time you see her.
2007-10-14 17:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by claireag 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop one off before the party. There will be other parties in the future , so try to stay " in the party flow".
2007-10-14 17:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋