My Dad showed up unexpectidley at my home. We were in the garage smoking weed and drinking beer. And that's how he found us. I was so embarassed, and felt so bad. My Dad just left. Turned his back on us and left. I don't know if he'll ever talk to me again. I
2007-10-14 14:19:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's allowed to tell you what you can do under his roof, not under yours. Don't feel bad, you didn't do anything wrong. He needs to understand that you're an adult, and you are going to live your life the way you see fit.
2007-10-14 14:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your dad over the phone. Say:
Dad I never ment for you to see that.
I don't know what got into me I just let myself get carried away. I really feel bad that I would attempt to do that. You raised me better and I am so sorry to go against what you taught me. I don't care if you hate me but I will always love you.
2007-10-14 21:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by astrolame 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well look on the bright side it wasn't a cop. Just to clarify something, I don't think you where embarrassed, by your parent, I believe your parent is very disappointed in his child. You suffer the consequences for what ever choices you make. I hope that high was worth it.
2007-10-14 21:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your dad is always your dad........ he will worry about you on his death bed........... cut him some slack, your still his child, it's a hard thing to transition from your being his little one to an adult able to make those choices........
Call your dad, invite him out to lunch......... let him know your not mad at him for walking in on your private moment with friends.....but, dad, it's like this...........
and if he still get's mad, well......... he's allowed........... he worries........ hehehehe
2007-10-14 21:49:55 · answer #4 · answered by bizzymom38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how old we get, our parents opinion always has value and we still want their approval. So call your Pop and smooth things over. He was probably just as embarrassed as you were
2007-10-14 21:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur an adult, if he doesnt approve of what you do now that you dont live under his roof, then he should shed some light and grow up and learn to live with it...i wouldnt worry about it thou, cuz if he is going to deny you of what you do in your house then hes just mean
2007-10-14 21:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋