Recently I found out he cheated on me while I was pregnant and after I was pregnant......He told me he was sorry he still wants to be with me but I don't know what to do I am torn...
2007-10-14 14:06:35 · 9 answers · asked by wendy66 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
dump him ...your child needs the full attention of it's mother, and you can't give that to him/her if you are worried about it's "baby daddy" and that is what he is....because it takes much more to be a father/co-parent
MOVE ON
2007-10-14 14:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by krazykatmeow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its an iffy deal do what you feel is right. You know him the best. most people once they are a cheater the always are, but there are a seldom few that do change. " To make a mistake is human, but to repeat it is of your own accord". If he did it more then once he probally wont stop. Never let a guy hurt you emotionally. My mom cheated on my dad and he stayed it tore me apart to see how bad he hurt everyday. Don't make your child grow up in that type of enviroment (it still kills my dad even after many years, it never goes away). Just make sure you and your child are safe and happy. Good Luck. By the way don't get your tubes tied you may someday want another. I know many young girls that have made it on there own with out any help at all. If you have friends or family to help that is great. If not just bust ur butt and you can make it on your own. Don't let security make you stay Bad choice for u and ur child. You'll find someone someday that will be a great father for ur child, but remeber not to search for a guy to have a family with too many people passing through its life will confues it ( i don't know the sex that is why i say it)
2007-10-14 21:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTTOM LINE...He cheated on you and that broke your trust. Love means nothing without trust and he's already proven in a really sensitive time and after that he doesn't value you that much. He's done it repeatedly and it won't stop. The best thing you can do is walk away with some dignity. Don't be a fool and set a bad example for your child...it takes strength to walk away and start over but its the best decision for you and this baby. Good luck and I'm sure you'll look back and be glad you did.
2007-10-14 22:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can be said about a woman who has a child with a man who has no commitment to her, or the child? It doesn't really matter if you take him back or not, the result will be the same. If you take him back, he'll cheat again, and your child will be left without a family. If you don't take him back - same situation. Get your tubes tied, move in with your parents, so your child has some semblance of a family, and quit having such low standards for your life. You have a child to raise now. Your love life needs to wait until that job is done.
2007-10-14 21:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tiss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby's daddy, is what you meant to say, right? Leave him, he probably already found 12 other girls and they're probably pregnant now!
Find another guy.
2007-10-14 21:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by newyorkgal71 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "baby daddy"????
Listen closely: it's "baby's daddy". When you and others say it that way, what you're really talking about is a daddy who is a baby. Not too possible, is it!
Use proper grammar!
2007-10-14 21:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by N L 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
baby daddy?? what are you a gangster thug with no grammar???
He's called your CHILD'S FATHER.
I feel sorry for your child.
2007-10-14 21:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i honestly dnt kno wat id do, id b so hurt that he cheated but especially when u wer carryn his baby!! only u kno if he loves u and is truely sorry...but dnt gv in easy make him pay 4 it an dnt jus stay wit him 4 ur baby u hav 2 b happy! hope it wrks out 4 ya
2007-10-14 21:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
dump him of course
2007-10-14 21:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Sxoxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋