utes of mestastasized aggressive breast cancer to the lungs? I want to do this right if I have to! And I don't want to say, "I don't know what to say!"
2007-10-14 13:00:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Cancer
I would hold her hand and say "I love you very much. You will always be in my heart". She knows she is dying, so sharing with her how much she has meant to you is okay. Tears are okay. Let her know it is okay to go. Sometimes people hang in there even though they are miserable because they feel they have to.
2007-10-15 05:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you, my daughter is 25. Hold her hand and tell her how much you love her and if there is anything she would like doing. Tell her you will see her on the other side and not to be frightened.
I was diagnosed with adrenal cortical carcinoma, a very rare cancer. The tumour was invading the main vein into my heart so I had open heart surgery and had the tumour, left adrenal gland and kidney removed. It is less than two years since the op and the cancer has come back in both my lungs and liver. I have and still am very positive and strong, but if or when they call for me I wont be frightened. I have lots of friends and family who will look after me. This is what you should tell your daughter, there will be someone to look after her.
I hope you can be strong for your daughter because this is what she will want. I will say a prayer for you and your daughter.
Jeanette x
2007-10-14 14:43:04 · answer #2 · answered by Netty B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a daughter who is this age so my prayers are with you during this sad time. Hold her hand and tell her how much you love her and how she will always be loved and that you will see her again in God's Heaven. Tell her it's okay to go; that you will be all right. Be sure to not leave things unsaid that should be said. Just be there for her. Even if she's unconscious, she will hear you and know you're with her. God bless!
2007-10-14 13:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you dont need words to express how you feel . You have little to say to someone in there final days to hours. They usually cant communicate at this point anyway. I did tell my Mum that it was ok to leave this world, that i would be ok, that i would miss her terribly. I am so sorry for your daughter. I am 29, and just lost my mother to kidney cancer , she was sick for 4 months. My heart goes out to you.
Janette who responded to this question contact me if you read this, my mum had a similar cancer.
2007-10-15 00:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all let her know how much you love her. Then ask her if there is any thing that she needs to have done that you can do for her. Stay with her to the end. My mother just passed away with cancer. She told me how she wanted everything done right up to the dress she wanted to be buried in. Hopefully her pain will soon be over and may God bless and be with you.Many hugs!
2007-10-14 13:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by snowflake 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
oh my....this must be so hard for you,
to be honest i would just tell her how much you love her and tell her you are right by her side every step of the way. If she is able you may find that she will want to tell you so many things also, somehow when the time comes i dont think either of you will be lost for words.
i hope and pray for a miracle for you and your daughter, my heart really goes out to you right now xxxx
2007-10-14 14:24:33 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I would think, what would I like to hear at if I was about to pass away.I'd be worried about my family not being able to cope without me, or my family forgetting about me.Would be worried who's going to take care of my children/pets/parents when i'm gone.Is there anything waiting for me on the other side.Is it going to hurt?
Reassure her, tell her you love her and you'll miss her.Tell her you'll take care of everything.Give her religous reassurement if she need one.
Then think what you need to tell her, if there is anything you never said and you feel the need to.
Give her lots of phisical contact, hugs kisses etc, show her you're already taking care of everything.
Thats what i would do.
hope this helps a bit in this painfull time for you.
2007-10-14 13:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by whackywaces 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
wow, i am so sorry to hear that. think of a really happy memory you have of her. like the day you brought her home from the hospital. tell her how much you love her and that you won't be apart forever. hold her hand.
2007-10-14 13:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by les 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell her to let go if it will stop her suffering.
you dont want her in pain.
Tell you you love her and will see her in heaven some day.
hold her hand, do not leave her in her last days.
Tell her God will be waiting for her.
i'm so sorry about this.
my god be with you.
youre in my prayers.
2007-10-14 13:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Say what's in your heart. Whatever you do will the right thing.
2007-10-14 14:34:53 · answer #10 · answered by TweetyBird 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋