Would you consider dating a guy for his money? Let's say for example, you kinda/sorta like a guy, would the fact that he has money push you more into going out with him?? And if so, would you expect him to keep buying you stuff??
2007-10-14 11:11:54 · 27 answers · asked by cooldude11000000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, I'm married and darn right I've fantasized about being with a guy with money, who wouldn't. Just once I'd like the high life but I know the guy with money would have his own problems I'd soon love to hate and the money growing on trees syndrome would bore me...however I'd love the chance to try :)
2007-10-14 11:16:12 · answer #1 · answered by Yummy♥Mummy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm no lady I'm a 34 year old male I'm not married have a girlfriend, make pretty good money I've had my share of relationships which gave me enough experience in how to be a better boyfriend I've always been pretty lucky I've really never had a girlfriend that i can say that she was a gold digger or even a bad person I've always been with good people lucky for me, nobody perfect specially not me and yes i do buy my girlfriend gifts and yes i almost always pick up the tab but i dint care my girl is anything but a gold digger I've been around the block a little i can smell them i dint have time for women like that i don't care how beautiful they are, my girls no model but i love her she's my girl.
2007-10-14 18:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by Ozz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not ME.....If I kinda sorta liked him I would not go out with him because of the money. I find that most guys with money have weirdnesses that this gal isn't thrilled with. So no on the buying me stuff. Sure I like gifts, but I would have to really be in love to let him buy me gifts. I'm a practical gal, fair and honest. Money certainly isn't everything. In most relationships, money just causes problems. Whether you have it or are scraping by.I'd keep your money hidden, and not flaunt it around with the gals, then you may be able to get a true love. Money is the root of all evil.......tada
2007-10-14 18:34:48 · answer #3 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If a guy kept buying me things or would allow a girl to go out with him for his money, he would not be the kind of guy I would date. That would show a lack of respect and confidence in himself, which is not at all attractive. A girl who would date a guy only for his money has no integrity. Money should not be a factor, either way. Being rich is not a turn off, but using money as a substitute for value is.
2007-10-14 18:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Integrity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, yes! Since I'm already kinda/sorta interested in him already and now that I know he has money, it will increase my interest in him but here's the thing... I would never ever expect him to keep buying me stuffs... Oh no!!! there are other girls out there are who are materialistic and want their boyfriends to buy what they want. I just won't... I would rather use my own money and buy the thing I want. It's rather low for a girl to expect their boyfriend to buy everything for them every time. It's a good gesture if he pays for dinner or sometimes he offers to pay for the things I like. It's really up to him if he wants to or not.
2007-10-14 18:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by vintage_springs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I hate money. I know that is a funny thing to say, but I do. I make enough money to get by, and I lead a minimalist existence by choice. Two exceptions to this rule are my horror movie collection, and my computer. My cats are also very spoiled.
As to your question about a guy with money: money doesn't impress me. My family is wealthy. The qualities I look for in a guy are things like intelligence, loving attitude, and yes, sexiness;) But not money.
2007-10-14 18:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are pretty much asking us if we were willing to be golddiggers. Second, money so DOES NOT matter. Ya, it's nice that a man has money-enough money to where he doesn't live in a box out on the street corner. And no, a guy doesn't need to by me crap. To me, it's the thought that counts. If that means he never buys me anything, well, that's ok. As long as he loves me.
2007-10-14 18:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by du_hast_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it, everyone likes money. I'm certainly not adverse to dating a guy with lots of money, but I don't seek out guys like that, in fact I don't even know any. As far as him paying for stuff, that's a little more complicated. If he was doing it just to impress me, then no, but if he does it just because it's how he shows affection, then it's ok, as long as he shows it in other ways too.
2007-10-14 18:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by god_chic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds all generic and cheesy but in reality the only women who are looking only for money in a relationship are the women who are going to leave you for another man who's richer. if money was the only issue, bill gates would get any woman. but i personally would NEVER go out with a guy just because of their money. and the part about always buying stuff, that just shows how materialistic the relationship is and nothing satisfying will come out of it in the end.
2007-10-14 18:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by Samaira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only answer for me. No money is not any reason to date anyone. If you like someone. It should be on that alone. And I would not date anyone who thought I should have to buy them. Are they even worth knowing????? Should anyone set their sites on money as a main goal in a relationship? Then I would feel sorry for the person they ended up marrying.
2007-10-14 18:20:35 · answer #10 · answered by nora d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋