she has a girlfriend she claims to be dating
2007-10-14 11:06:53 · 6 answers · asked by peglar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I take it from your other questions that this is your daughter. My advice is to just let her alone - if the two of you have a rocky relationship, she may be saying so partly just to bother you. On the other hand, maybe she is gay - please read the link below for friendly advice.
Whether she's actually gay or whether she's just trying it out to bother you, trying to stop her is not going to help anything. And hey, at least she won't get pregnant!
Good luck, I hope the two of you can learn to get along well.
2007-10-14 11:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by galaxor, destroyer 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a parent you are in a tough spot. This could be however, an experiment, and not last. If pressured by a parent, or ridiculed, I can almost guarantee she will dart from you into the hold of the girlfriend. Calm discussions, could help. But, supporting her and letting her know that she is loved no matter what can help. It's ok to express your disappointment but be easy, you don't want her to runaway and hide. Maybe it will pass.
2007-10-14 18:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Toffy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what is your feelings on this situation ? do you not agree ? this seems to be more out in the open these days and it seems to be OK but people still aren't ready to except something that goes against god and nature but that is beside the point she is still you daughter and I'm sure you love her a lot so just keep loving her let her know how you feel and ask her how she feels and why a lot a people confuse many feelings for love a lot of people experiment as well so hang in there and if you believe in the lord pray good luck
2007-10-14 18:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by been there and know now 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well she is young and so was i at one point. it may be just a fase but then again maybe she is into only girls. but no matter what she needs you more now than she ever did. this is supposed to be your kid. love her and tell her everyday you love her. and no you dont like what she is doing but that she has your support. i never had the support of my parents and i still dont and i wish i did. but please dont stop telling her you love her and you just want her to be happy. thats all that should matter .
2007-10-14 18:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's nice, I don't really get your question, I mean I guess it's different, but that's okay
2007-10-14 18:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Crappy Haircut Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess that depends on who you are to her: parent, sibling, friend...?
Really different responses depending on who you are I'd think.
2007-10-14 18:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by Mama 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋